Also I'm much less normal and successful than that paragraph makes me sound (in case you got either of those impressions from that paragraph). So a couple disclaimers:
1) I'm in a terminal relationship with my own emptiness but occasionally I cheat on myself with others. I'm not interested in any body that performs itself in terms of traditional categories, but I am interested in bodies, both free and under the influence of external forces (that's a physics joke but the point is just don't be too straight plz).
2) I'm kind of obsessed with my research. If you don't wanna hear about how electrons move around in living things, you probably won't enjoy my company.