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32 Harlem, NY Man


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  • Ages 18–99
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 4:31pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm in my early thirties now and I've been a student my entire life. I'm ok at it. I got a master's degree in continental philosophy and moved to NYC in 2006 to get a PhD, but dropped out and decided to become a scientist instead. Now I'm almost done with a PhD in biochemistry and I teach and do research in biophysics at city college.

Also I'm much less normal and successful than that paragraph makes me sound (in case you got either of those impressions from that paragraph). So a couple disclaimers:

1) I'm in a terminal relationship with my own emptiness but occasionally I cheat on myself with others. I'm not interested in any body that performs itself in terms of traditional categories, but I am interested in bodies, both free and under the influence of external forces (that's a physics joke but the point is just don't be too straight plz).

2) I'm kind of obsessed with my research. If you don't wanna hear about how electrons move around in living things or think about the physical and chemical explanations for why life emerged and evolves, you'll probably enjoy my company only part of the time.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to understand how "matter in the living state" got so weird and differentiated. Also making proteins into transistors and diodes. Basically waging war on the false distinction between natural and synthetic.
I’m really good at
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Statistical thermodynamics, the bankhead bounce, kemo walk, and dougie.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Don't know...don't care...why aren't you paying attention to this derivation?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like sprawling, high modern, "death of europe" novels from between the wars like the man without qualities and the sleepwalkers. Faulkner and Melville are my favorite American authors. I don't like anything pedantic or with a narrative agenda unless its about quantum mechanics. Also I should mention Kundera and Battaile if I'm gonna keep it real w yall.

If anyone has read or is familiar with the work of Ilya Prigogine or knows anything about non-equilibrium thermodynamics and statistical mechanics, plz contact me we can really geek out!

For movies I enjoy things with lots of working class empathy and ceremonial orgies. Pasolini, Fellini, Derek Jarman. Also I might pass on the Truffaut but I'll watch all that still-as-death Russian shit specially if u got pilllzzzzz.

I like modern dance and opera, and also shit that's clearly intended for 13 year old boys; wizards still dazzle me enough that I'll take the hike up that traditional plot arc even though I'm old enough to know better.

I grew up in Atlanta. I prefer it ignant and colossal. Recently I have wanted to be thuggerthugger's hubbyhubby since foreverever. Migos and sicko mobb are still in the rotation. Classics are like Juvenile and Mariah Carey. I can be weird too though so I'll listen to Can and Eno with u specially if u got...

food: THE RICH!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
world I need you, won't be without you
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Time, structure, fluctuations
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being interesting as fuck somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pantheist.
You should message me if
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U wanna get deep...scientists, philosophers, stoners, libertines, queers, errbody except squares basically.

Also, I don't *require* that you have radical politics but if you have a limited imagination with regard to the social possibilities of human beings then you probably haven't thought through the fact that we're animals to a sufficient level of awareness such that we're gon make sparxx anyway.