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VivaciousCharm

34 F Boston, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 31
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is busy guys, I'll try to get on here as much as I can to respond to each of you, the life of being a single parent is never done. Priorities come first. If you have a problem with this, be on your way, thanks, a bye-bye...
Just to let you know before you go on from here reading, I am NOT interested in meeting anyone for a fling or to have as a friends with benefits. I could do that if I wanted to without being on here. I'm here to find someone that could possible be my "soul mate", my other half, my best friend & lover for life.

Hey I figure, what's the worse thing that could come out of this whole experience?! I'd make some good friends?? *gasp* Oooh nooo mustn't have that... *oozing sarcasm, can't you taste it*

I like to keep my pictures up to date, so you know what your getting in this century not last lol Every month I take new pictures to post. So, yes, they are recent pictures my dears.

I'll try to update things here and there, you know, just to keep you in the loop... Things change, people change... So why not a damn profile?! ;) I love writing so I tend to write a lot, so bear with me... I'll try not to make this painful :D

With that being said::

Jeeze, what do I put here??
I don't know exactly what to say, but here you go...

I am a mother, a student, a lover, a daughter, a grand-daughter, a sister, a niece, a teacher, a cousin, a caregiver & a true friend. Being a MOM is the greatest joy & the most important job you can have... I love my daughter more than anything in the world.

I believe in treating others as I would like to be treated. Being loyal, honest, compassionate & loving are some of my traits that I am personally proud to have. Although, truthfully I can be a stubborn ass once in awhile & I can be quite sarcastic sometimes *shrug, rolling eyes* (most of the time my sarcasm is me trying to be funny in an odd way). But I can tell ya it's never a dull moment!! Hey,you got to take the good with the bad! I'm far from perfect & I never will be, if you are looking for that... keep moving.

I adore animals, I have quite a few. I have 3 female cats: Kiki (Kiki-kins), Saffie (Saffron) & Abbie (Abigail). I also have a long haired female Chihuahua, named Sage & an English Budgerigar aka English Parakeet, named Jewels. So, liking animals is kind of a MUST to be with me...

I take pleasure in being outdoors taking in part of activities such as fishing, camping & hiking. I love art, all types, from painting to the preforming arts. I'm actually a dabbling artist myself, mostly pencil drawing. I'd consider my work to be more realism than anything else, I am currently in the process of trying to broaden my styles.

I'm not a party girl, those days are long gone. Although I do like going to an occasional bar to see bands play, also I enjoy playing pool, darts & going bowling. However, I am perfectly content to just lay-back cuddling watching a movie at home or doing anything, spending time with loved ones.

I cook, a lot! Nobody ever goes hungry at my house. I can pretty much cook anything, if I don't know how I'll learn. I'll try just about anything once, twice sometimes just to make sure. I am a hopeless romantic, just trying to find my place in this crazy world. I've been through a lot in my life, good & bad. I don't regret anything, it has all just made me stronger & into the person I am today.

I believe EVERYTHING happens for a reason ♥
I'm a lover not a fighter ♥
I believe L♥VE can conquer all things.
I don't forgive people because I'm weak; I forgive them because I am strong enough to know people make mistakes ♥
Life comes without guarantees. Except that... smiling will brighten your face, Laughing will enhance your eyes, & falling in love will change your life… ♥

♥ I am who I am. {simple as that}
Stay true to who you are… ♥

BTW don't get used to my hair, for the most part it changes like Autumn leaves, ranging from Dark Blonde to Mahogany to Chocolate to even RED!! lol

PS
If you play WoW I can be found mainly playing on Eonar usually playing Captivate & Sweetñerotic (My Hordes) or Sweetestzen & Sweetñraw (My Alli toons)... I have other toons on other servers as well but I don't play them much anymore. Hit me up, let me know where you play ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living each day as if it were my last, at least I'm trying to... Honestly, I'm just trying to be a better me each day and be the best mother I can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a mother & I'm not a shabby cook either. I've been told I'm an excellent listener & I communicate well (Well, I'd like to think so, so that's good!). I'm a sponge for "useless" info, but seriously, what IS "useless" information?? I think all information is useful in some way. Ooh & I have been complimented on my technique, get your mind out of the gutter, *clears throat* as I was saying... my technique giving neck & back massages!! ;)
** I'm REALLY good at rambling when I am nervous or when I just don't know quite what to say and I'd like to cover all ground lol **
Did I mention I have the knack of finding humor in almost anything?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The ability to make people feel at ease, my smile, my empathy & my green eyes... at least that is whats been told to me by many people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books::
Graphic Novels, Fantasy, How-to, Informational, New Age & Inspiration, Self-Improvement, Science & Nature...
My all time favorite type of books are ones about Haunted Places & Informational on Nature or stuff of that sort! Oh duh, Cookbooks too!
(However, I look recipes up online a lot more than I tend to buy books on them. I usually end up making my own recipe by combining ones I find, I don't know I just end up with dishes I think would be nice. Most of the time I'm on point, as so I am told by my two biggest critics, my daughter & my mom)
Sorry, got off topic there, shall we... onward and forward!!!

Movies::
Horror (Mainly Thriller/Horror ones that make you think, although I do enjoy Zombie movies), Mysteries, Romantic Comedies, Comedies, Action, Drama, Adventure, Epic/Myth, Fantasy (Any dragon, medieval, fairy, Vampire, Werewolf movie I can get my hands on), Science Fiction, Thriller, Musicals (Jesus Christ Super Star, Rent, Cats, Chicago, etc), Classic (John Wayne "The Duke", Frank Sinatra "Ole Blue Eyes" etc), Comic Book related (Batman, X-Men, Hell Boy Etc)...
Some of my personal favorite movies are ~ Alice in Wonderland (the original cartoon yes, so sue me, but I also enjoyed the newer one with Depp as Hatter as well), The Big Lebowski (Of course, WHO doesn't love the Dude?!... That rug really tied the room together, did it not?), Army of Darkness (That naturally implies I love the Evil Dead movies, Bruce Campbell is Beast!!) , Labyrinth, Shaun of the Dead, Dark Crystal, Super Troopers, Snatch, Step-Brothers, Knocked Up, The Ugly Truth, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, Fight Club, Legend (Not "I am Legend" although I did enjoy that one as well, no, the one with Tim Curry as Darkness, oh yes), Inception, Memento, 6th Sense, Monty Python and the Holy Grail (Meaning of Life & The Life of Brian are also great), Spaceballs & the Original Star Wars Trilogy. ETC ETC ETC, oh that reminded me!! Princess Bride!! How could I have forgotten that one?!
Oh Boy!! My Movie section turned out to be one big hot babbling mess, right?! Sorry guys lol
Ok ok, so I am kinda sorta a HUGE movie watcher!!
I have fun with it! I watch almost anything, but I'll admit when a movie is horrible & needs to be turned off, or it could be SO horrible that it's like a car wreck & you want to see what happens!! I've had it happen *shrug* But, I'd turn it off if you wanted me too, I'd just watch it later, no big deal ;)

TV Shows (I don't have cable, Netflix works, for now)::
Walking Dead, How I Met Your Mother, The Big Bang Theory, Doctor Who, Supernatural, Once Upon a Time, House, Burn Notice, CSI: NY, New Girl... AbFab (Absolutely Fabulous, an English Comedy from BBC) is HANDS DOWN my favorite show of all time!!! Oh and an other great BBC, Coupling! Love it! (Guess I am a BBC Comedy fan huh?)

I LOVE Stand-Up Comics::
Robin Williams, Dane Cook, Dennis Leary, Steve Martin, George Carlin, Dave Chappelle, Bill Cosby, Ron White, Lewis Black, Larry the Cable Guy

Music::
I have an eclectic taste in music, however I am not into Scream-o or Death Metal, I don't mind listening to it, but only in small doses, very small...
Some of my favorites:
Pink, Enigma, Staind (Aaron Lewis), Kimbra, NIN, Plush Gun, STP, Evanescence, Metallica, Dido, Eminem, Bob Seger, Johnny Cash, Jimi Hendrix, The Doors, Madonna (80s), David Bowie, Frank Sinatra, Peggy Lee, Beyoncé, Moody Blues, Seether, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Walk off the Earth, Adele, Alice in Chains...
I'll stop myself now, I could go on & on with the music list just as I did with my Movies!!!

Food::
As with movies & music I have an eclectic taste for food...
My 2 favorite styles/types, I guess would be: BBQ/Southern & any kind of Seafood dish (so bring on the surf & turf!).
My favorite "single" food is absolutely lobster!! I mean what do you expect I've lived in New England off the beach all my life! I do love steak, rare. Scare it, sear it and bring it out, sooorry... I know it grosses some people out, but that's just the way I like it.
I love to cook & bake... I tend to experiment a lot.
The weirdest thing I made lately were Frogs Legs, they taste like chicken with a extremely slight white fish flavor, texture is sort of in between the two as well, more on the white fish side, think flounder like texture. You'd have to try yourself to understand. All in all I liked it a lot, even had my mother try it, she agreed the way I did it came out great! Ask her!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* My daughter
* L♥ve
* Family
* Close Friends
* My animals
* Laughter

Ok other than THOSE, you know "naturally said" things, here are 6 of the things that I tend to use on a daily basis, that I wouldn't like to do without::
* Internet
* Coffee
* Music
* Art
* Movies
* My Cellphone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it would be like if, I had the ability to make things better in a blink of an eye... wishful thinking... after all, I am a dreamer. But seriously I have been thinking a ton about what more I can do to make positive differences in the world. How can I make the world a better place?? So many people suffer every day in so many ways. Some go unnoticed, as if they don't exist... Breaks my heart.

These are two things that I make a point to do everyday:
I smile at absolutely everyone I come across & I compliment at LEAST one stranger on something, anything once a day... You never know how one simple smile could brighten up someone's day & how a small kind remark will lift someone's spirits.

I'm the type of person who holds the door open for a stranger. I help anyone that seems to be struggling, with anything that I am capable of helping out with... When someone drops something, Pick it up!!! It doesn't take much effort to let people know that there are good people out there, people who do care.

I think what's partly wrong with society today is the lack of consideration & compassion... People need to start being less selfish & more willing to help out fellow man. I want to change the world with every person I meet, in any way possible. Maybe my acts of kindness may have them wanting to "Pay it forward".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not hanging out with my daughter, I can be found hanging out with friends or at a club in town catching one of my friend's bands in action... But I'm most likely to be found at home curled up on the couch watching movies or playing WoW (where usually I end up)... yes, I know, I lead SUCH an exciting life!! lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may look sweet & innocent, ok ok I pretty much am, but I do have a devilish side, no honestly I do!!!

Other then that tid bit of info, that's all you'll get out of me on a public forum... get to know me and I'll let you in to my wacky mind o_O
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you got through this OBNOXIOUSLY long ass profile, made you laugh a bit or you see eye to eye on some stuff here (You totally don't have to agree with everything, but some stuff would be a plus). Or I just might have intrigued you by what I had to say... But most of all, you should message me if you're sick of games, you want a honest down to earth chick by your side & you're genuinely looking to settle down, drop me a note ♥