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31 Northridge, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: Until I have a job, I'm really not looking to date (not going to delete something I plan to eventually put back) but I'm all for talking.


I've noticed, the older I get, the more I seem to need something that I don't know even exists. I have thought some people were close, but then they show something I just could not live with. I'm by no means perfect, but I did inherit my father's need for perfection. Though everyone has their definition of "perfection", this is mine:

A little Mr. Darcy, a hint of Colonel Brandon, Some Christian Grey for spice (personality not wealth), and someone who reminds me of the male leads in all of my paranormal romances (Black Dagger Brotherhood or Dark Series, but wouldn't mind Demonica, Argenue, or Order of the Blade either).

I'm aware of the fact that the chances of all these men in one is slim to nil. I'm also aware that there aren't many guys on here that do (or would willingly admit too) read paranormal romance, or English Lit, but if you know of the guys I'm talking about, let's talk!

As for about me, just ask, 98% of the time I will answer questions about me, I don't believe in hiding things.

There is one more thing, I don't really like to give personal information to others unless I have talked to them to a point where I feel comfortable with them. So please don't ask me to give that stuff away before trying to just talk to me through here first. If I feel a connection here it will happen. Hell this isn't like other sites where you have to pay to message someone, might as well use what is free.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm just trying to live my life as best as I can. Mostly just looking for a job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, drawing, photoshop, role-playing (as in D&D), writing fiction, and taking care of others. I've also been told I'm good at massages. I can also French/Dutch braid my own hair.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm one odd dork! I tend to draw attention without really meaning to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Black Dagger Brotherhood series by J.R. Ward
The Dark series by Christine Feehan
The Demonica series by Larissa Ione
The "A Song of Ice and Fire" series by George R.R. Martin (otherwise known as the series of books the show A Game of Thrones is based off of)

CSI: Miami
Law & order: SVU (can I buy a vowel?)
Covert Affairs
White Collar
Burn Notice
Dancing With the Stars
The Game of Thrones
True Blood
Nurse Jackie
Top Gear (the British version)
Ghost Hunters
Ghost Hunters International
Destination Truth
Fact or Faked

The fast and the furious (the whole franchise)
The Saw movies
Harry Potter
Pirates of the Carribean
Lord of the Dance
Lord of the Rings
Top Gun
The Terminator movies
The Predator movies
The Alien movies
Movies by Mel Brooks
Monty Python movies
Zombie movies (usually anything by Romaro)
Old B&W horror movies
The remakes of said horror movies

I'm pretty much a meat and potatoes kinda girl but I also enjoy Chinese and some Mexican as well as Itallian. I also like certain German and Hungarian foods as well. Though I do hate MOST veggies (I'm not a rabbit!).

I'll listen to just about anything except for Christian music, reggae, and kiddy music. Really if you saw my music library you would see just how vast a diversity I have.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

MY iPod!! (how do you think I'd be listening to the music?!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and yet nothing at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making a house in the sims or trying to play in WoW when my net behaves, or writing, lots of writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a mild Sims addiction.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think you can stand the oddities of myself (and most likely my friends). If you think hanging out in cemeteries taking "ghost photos" at night sounds fun. Or if you really are the sweetest person in the world. Or if you actually got all the way to this part of the profile.