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Voisin1935

61 M Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.” If you do not like to spend too much time in port, please take a look. Essentially, I am looking for someone to collaborate with in figuring out what it is we want to do, followed by going for it without looking back.

I am self sufficient and independent, and would do best with someone who does not need a relationship, but who wants one, a person that I can just appreciate on her own as a woman. There is a lot that goes into that, but basically, I do not want another person to feel that they have to fulfill a specific role for me and vice versa. It is one thing to want to do something for somebody, and quite another to have to do it.

"Shared interests" are not my initial priorities--I already know what interests me so I am more interested in learning from you. I concentrate more on personal style and the balance/chemistry of the masculine and feminine-if that is right, then almost everything is fun. I am not so concerned with what someone thinks as I am with whether or not they have stopped thinking.

Maintaining a high level of physical fitness is part of who I am, and regardless of how you do it, I value the same in you. Style is very important to the extent that it is not superficial and genuinely reflects who you are. I also greatly appreciate good communication skills and a love of words. I have a highly developed sense of humour and try to make even the routine interactions of life as much fun as possible. Sex is important, but not on a stand alone basis.

I am a professional with my own client based business and I am curious by nature with a wide range of interests. There is not much that I don't get something out of--how something is done is frequently more important to me than the precise activity.

In terms of fun things to do with another person, travel is near the top. I also enjoy scuba diving when I can get away, I like to bike, and in general, I am up for doing things outdoors on land, mountains or water. In addition to travel, my primary hobbies are cooking and listening to jazz. I have an old sports car that I like to work on and drive when the weather is nice, but I don't talk about it or expect you to find it interesting, although I hope that you would enjoy the top down on a nice day. I also enjoy just being out and about in places that I find interesting (NYC!) but there is nothing like the ocean.

I currently spend a little more than a third of my time in Manhattan and could easily increase it to carry on a relationship there. In general, I am open to other locations.
What I’m doing with my life
Focusing on personal and professional activities where there is always something to learn, living with an open heart and just being out there picking up the small change as well as the big bills. I honestly believe that I have shed any baggage that would remotely weigh on the spirit of anyone else.

Working hard to achieve a high level of physical and mental fitness. My basic fitness pillars are functional/progressive training combined with yoga and boxing. The three disciplines integrate much better than one might think.
I’m really good at
Taking care of "people/things" whether they are daughters, nieces, friends, employees, collies, old cars, old houses, gardens, antique copper cookware etc.-- I do, however, avoid taking care of anyone/anything where the only reward is more of the same.

Expressing, either in writing or orally, complex concepts, thoughts or feelings in a way that makes them accessible to a wide range of audiences, using as much humour as is appropriate to the situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
No one has ever said, and I never think to ask.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy a wide range in all categories, but here are some examples--Movies: Casablanca, Animal House, Gaslight, the Thin Man series. Books: the Patrick O'Brien novels, de Tocqueville, Hobbes, Harry Potter, David McCullough, Peter Massie, Churchill, Richard Halliburton and Hemingway. Music: Most genres of jazz, particularly female vocalists, 60's soul music, particularly Stax, 50's, 60's and early 70's rock in general along with some funk and a little (very) early rap. Food: it is hard to rule out any fresh, well prepared food-- if I had to pick, I would choose grilled seafood/grass fed meats.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing as much as I can, hopefully somewhere else for the weekend, but at a minimum, unwinding at the bar of a favorite DC/NY neighborhood restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is not going to appear here, as I am extremely private by nature. If we are in a relationship, and you want to know something, I am more than happy to tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are direct, honest, have accurate/recent pictures (please) and, once your security concerns are satisfied, are willing to have an initial, face to face meeting (even a brief one) at a time and place that is convenient and comfortable for you.