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Volleygirl_78

36 F Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I’m a number-crunching nerd by day and a volleyball/softball-playing, TV-watching, gym-going, fun-loving, STL explorer by night. It’s rare that I have a full day with nothing going on, and I’m totally fine with that.

I’ve lived in St. Louis most of my life, but I’m always learning about restaurants, places, and events that I haven’t experienced yet. I’m up for just about any adventure, whether it’s a concert, street festival, physical activity, sporting event, or just a bar I’ve never been to before.
What I’m doing with my life
I’ve been at the same job since I graduated from grad school in 2002. For the most part I enjoy my job and don’t mind when the alarm goes off in the morning. Of course, Fridays are always better than Mondays.
I’m really good at
getting the sticky part to line up just right when putting on a paper wristband.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, if we’re engaged in conversation and you’re funny, you’ll notice my laugh. But I’m guessing we’re talking physical characteristics here, so I’ll go with my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Gone Girl, 11/22/63, Replay

Movies - Too many to list... I've been working my way through all of the films nominated for best picture at the Oscars since I was born. I've seen almost all of them from 2012 back to 1986 or so. I like drama, comedy, and thrillers. Action and sci-fi aren't really my thing.

TV Shows - Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Modern Family, Big Bang Theory, Mad Men, Homeland, Downton Abbey, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, The Killing

Music - I listen to alt nation on Sirius XM.

Food - popcorn, shrimp - although popcorn shrimp isn't a favorite :)
The six things I could never do without
my phone
my family/friends
physical activity
google
sports teams to follow
white noise when I'm sleeping
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my next vacation and when/where I'm going to meet Mr. Right.
On a typical Friday night I am
eating pizza at my parents' house then going out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As more and more friends are getting married and starting families, I'm getting a little concerned that I'm never going to find my soulmate.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
I’m hoping to meet someone who is open to spending some time enjoying one another's company and seeing where things lead. I'm NOT looking for a pen pal or someone who wants to spend forever sending messages before meeting in person. I think online dating is a great way to interact with people you wouldn't have met otherwise, but meeting in person is really the only way to know if there's a chance at compatibility. So I'm all for meeting somewhat early on. It's just dinner or a beer, nothing too scary!

As I go on more and more dates, I'm discovering that the following things are pretty important to me in a match:
1) a similar work schedule to mine (9-5ish M-F, weekends off, not a ton of traveling)
2) interest in sports
3) a healthy lifestyle (working out, not eating like a pig)

If you don't have all of these things, it's not necessarily a dealbreaker, but you'd better be darn close to perfect otherwise ;)