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44 Seattle, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:59am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Dropped out of masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please, do yourself a favor and read my profile. It will really help you here.

This is a new profile, but I've been on OKC for a few years. I decided to streamline.

I've lived and loved a lot, but I haven't really traveled: I really want that to change. I'm not your girl next door; I'm often told I'm not like anyone else, but I believe that can be said for anyone. I'm originally from Utah, where the underground punk and new wave scene of the 80's left a deep rebellious impression that can never be erased. I'm a horticulturist and arborist (i.e. plant geek), but now embrace advocacy as my calling. I love to dance and I've been to Burning Man, the ultimate dance event. I've gone on 9 day backpacking trips but now prefer a tempurpedic after a day of adventuring. I'm teaching myself to knit and sew, I once ran a 5k very slowly and painfully, I've professionally cooked but not for long (I'm a good cook but don't really like to cook), and I regularly swim and sunbathe nude. I'm more of a Cannabis than an alcohol kind of woman, but I'll take a good French .75 any time. I love house parties and all night dance events. I have a versatile sense of humor from sarcastic and dry to potty jokes. I prefer the latter though: I'm kind of like a 13 year old complete with fart jokes and wrestling. I'm a thrift store diva, and I'm proud of that.

While I'm not a gamer or tech geek, I'm a big sci-fi fan, am a plant geek, social justice inspired, and smart girl. Science interests me. I also know and hang out with a lot of geeks of various geekeries.

I am liberal, sex positive, femme, feminist, fatshionista, fat, and fabulous.

I need affection and connection, potential and warmth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in the early planning stages of doing something else.

Some things I'll keep doing are: socializing multiple times a week (if I'm lucky) with a large, creative, sexy, fun, and mostly authentic group of wild but caring people.

Hanging out with and loving on my ACD (blue heeler).

Discovering whiskey.

Napping a lot (this should also go on the "Things I'm Good At" list).

Stuff, when I'm lucky.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Gardening, kissing, articulating my thoughts, dog training, being excited, cuddling, cultivating authenticity, spotting patterns in human behavior, calling out bullshit, being a little naive (I prefer idealistic), advocacy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dimples, big ass, or hair.
Then there is my personality. Love it or lump it, it's big, and unashamed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
sci-fi, alternative, compelling, electronic, drama, Vietnamese, Grapes of Wrath, Lapsang Souchong (very strong, with cream and sweetener), bar songs (singing them is super fun), stuff to dance to, seafood, five spice, cable type series, the occasional comic...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dairy, two pillows, affection/sex, something refreshing to drink, lube, warmth, love, and gps.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who I want to be.
Consumer culture.
Social justice.
Why people do the things they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for trouble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wasn't born with the purple hair.
I've got a Fetlife account.
Other stuff tbd.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are affectionate, you want more on the relationship end and less of the casual sex end of the spectrum (though I'm not talking big R. We haven't even met ffs!) and you like animals, dogs especially. Fat isn't a shameful word for you and you are sex positive, and know what that means(Google it if you don't), have a high sex drive, and WE HAVE A HIGH MATCHING PERCENTAGE..

I probably won't answer emails with one line, or from people out of state (or out of the greater Seattle area, unless you plan on visiting Seattle very regularly) or with low matching percentages (I've set a filter for this). There are far too many cool local people to fall into that trap. Also, you should have a filled out profile.

If you are a burner, say hi! It doesn't mean you want to date me, it's just a friendly thing to do. I tend to say hi to all the burners I recognize.