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45 • Seattle, WA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–56
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:07pm
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Full figured
- Mostly anything
- Dropped out of masters program
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and likes cats
I've lived and loved a lot, but I haven't really traveled: I really want that to change. I'm not your girl next door; I'm often told I'm not like anyone else, but I believe that can be said for anyone. I'm originally from Utah, where the underground punk and new wave scene of the 80's left a deep rebellious impression that can never be erased. I'm a horticulturist and arborist (i.e. plant geek), but now embrace advocacy as my calling. I love to dance. I've been to Burning Man and numerous local/regional events and regularly engage with the local burner community. I've gone on 9 day backpacking trips but now prefer a tempurpedic after a day of adventuring. I'm teaching myself to knit and sew, I once ran a 5k very slowly and painfully, I've professionally cooked but not for long (I'm a good cook but don't really like to cook), and I regularly swim and sunbathe nude. I'm more of a Cannabis than an alcohol kind of woman, but I'll take a good French .75 or Old Fashioned any time. I love house parties and all night dance events. I have a versatile sense of humor from sarcastic and dry to potty jokes. I prefer the latter though: I'm kind of like a 13 year old complete with fart jokes and wrestling. I'm a thrift store diva, and I'm proud of that.
While I'm not a gamer or tech geek, I'm a big sci-fi fan, am a plant geek, social justice inspired, and smart girl. Science interests me. I also know and hang out with a lot of geeks of various geekeries.
I am liberal, sex positive, femme, feminist, fatshionista, fat, and fabulous.
I need affection and connection, potential and warmth.
Some things I'll keep doing are: socializing multiple times a week (if I'm lucky) with a large, creative, sexy, fun, and mostly authentic group of wild but caring people.
Hanging out with and loving on my ACD (blue heeler).
Napping a lot (this should also go on the "Things I'm Good At" list).
Stuff, when I'm lucky.
I have a "strong" personality. Love it or lump it, it's big, and unashamed. I've got opinions that I share, am told I'm bold, and am not shy about talking about my body, sexuality, and adult themes, once I get comfortable with someone. People notice this.
Why people do the things they do.
I've got a Fetlife account.
Other stuff tbd.
I'm interested in well articulated messages. If not long, make it relevant to my profile please. This just tells me you read it, and shows your intentions. Locals Only.
If you are a burner, say hi! It doesn't mean you want to date me, it's just a friendly thing to do. I tend to say hi to all the burners I recognize.
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