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44 F Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:08pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Dropped out of masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Please, do yourself a favor and read my profile. It will really help you here.

This is a new profile, but I've been on OKC for a few years. I decided to streamline.

I've lived and loved a lot, but I haven't really traveled: I really want that to change. I'm not your girl next door; I'm often told I'm not like anyone else, but I believe that can be said for anyone. I'm originally from Utah, where the underground punk and new wave scene of the 80's left a deep rebellious impression that can never be erased. I'm a horticulturist and arborist (i.e. plant geek), but now embrace advocacy as my calling. I love to dance and I've been to Burning Man, the ultimate dance event. I've gone on 9 day backpacking trips but now prefer a tempurpedic after a day of adventuring. I'm teaching myself to knit and sew, I once ran a 5k very slowly and painfully, I've professionally cooked but not for long (I'm a good cook but don't really like to cook), and I regularly swim and sunbathe nude. I'm more of a Cannabis than an alcohol kind of woman, but I'll take a good French .75 any time. I love house parties and all night dance events. I have a versatile sense of humor from sarcastic and dry to potty jokes. I prefer the latter though: I'm kind of like a 13 year old complete with fart jokes and wrestling. I'm a thrift store diva, and I'm proud of that.

I am polyamorous, liberal, sex positive, femme, feminist, fatshionista, fat, and fabulous.

I need affection and connection, potential and warmth.
What I’m doing with my life
It's been a pretty mellow year. I started knitting again after a 3 year hiatus, I spend a LOT of time with my awesome dog. I was gifted a bike for my birthday so I've been biking again, and have helped train my dog to run along side of the bike. I haven't really danced in months and I would like that to change. I have recently been exposed to a lot of tea, so I have a LOT of tea.
I’m really good at
Gardening, kissing, articulating my thoughts, dog training, being excited, cuddling, cultivating authenticity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
sci-fi, alternative, compelling, electronic, drama, Vietnamese, Grapes of Wrath, Lapsang Souchong
The six things I could never do without
Cream and butter, mmm butter, affection/sex, something refreshing to drink, lube, warmth, and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who I want to be.
Consumer culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for trouble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm kinky :) and this isn't private to anyone that knows me (neither is the kinky bit) but I go to therapy. Don't you? Why not?
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 29–56
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are affectionate, polyamorous or non-monogamous and you want more on the relationship end and less of the casual sex end of the spectrum and you like animals, dogs especially. fat isn't a shameful word for you and you are sex positive, and know what that means, and we have high matching percentages.

I probably won't answer emails with one line, or from people out of state or with low matching percentages. There are far too many cool local people to fall into that trap. Also, you should have a filled out profile.