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45 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:37pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of masters program
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've lived and loved a lot, but I haven't really traveled: I really want that to change. I'm not your girl next door; I'm often told I'm not like anyone else, but I believe that can be said for anyone. I'm originally from Utah, where the underground punk and new wave scene of the 80's left a deep rebellious impression that can never be erased.

I'm a horticulturist and arborist (i.e. plant geek), but now embrace advocacy as my calling. I love to dance. I've been to Burning Man and numerous local/regional events and regularly engage with the local burner community. I did Rainbow Gathering once. That was *interesting*. I've gone on 9 day backpacking trips but now prefer a tempurpedic after a day of adventuring. I'm teaching myself to knit and sew, I once ran a 5k very slowly and painfully, I've professionally cooked but not for long (I'm a good cook but don't really like to cook), and I regularly swim and sunbathe nude.

I'm more of a Cannabis than an alcohol kind of woman, but I'll take a good French .75 or Old Fashioned any time. I love house parties and all night dance events. I have a versatile sense of humor from sarcastic and dry to potty jokes. I prefer the latter though: I'm kind of like a 13 year old complete with fart jokes and wrestling. I'm a thrift store diva, and I'm proud of that.

While I'm not a gamer or tech geek, I'm a big sci-fi fan, am a plant geek, social justice inspired, and smart girl. Science interests me. I also know and hang out with a lot of geeks of various geekeries.

I am liberal, sex positive, femme, feminist, fatshionista, fat, and fabulous.

I need affection and connection, potential and warmth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in the early planning stages of doing something else.

Some things I'll keep doing are: socializing multiple times a week (if I'm lucky) with a large, creative, sexy, fun, and mostly authentic group of wild but caring people.

Hanging out with and loving on my ACD (blue heeler).

Discovering whiskey.

Napping a lot (this should also go on the "Things I'm Good At" list).

Stuff, when I'm lucky.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Gardening, kissing, articulating my thoughts, dog training, being excited, cuddling, cultivating authenticity, pilates (reformer, when I can afford it), spotting patterns in human behavior, calling out bullshit, being a little naive (I prefer idealistic), advocacy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dimples, big ass, or hair.
I have a "strong" personality. That's right, I've got opinions that I share, am told I'm bold, and am not shy about talking about my body, sexuality, and adult themes, once I get comfortable with someone. People notice this.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
sci-fi, alternative, compelling, electronic, drama, Vietnamese, Grapes of Wrath, Lapsang Souchong (very strong, with cream and sweetener), bar songs (singing them is super fun), stuff to dance to, seafood, five spice, cable type series, the occasional comic, whiskey with bitters. Not a Whovian, but I'm both a Trekky and a Star Wars fan (Clone wars). I have the box set of West Wing. On a quest to find all the good Old Fashioneds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dairy, two pillows, affection/sex, pets (my dog), something refreshing to drink, lube, warmth, love, and gps.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who I want to be.
Consumer culture.
Social justice.
Why people do the things they do.
Why people lie when asked harmless direct questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for trouble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wasn't born with the purple hair.
I've got a Fetlife account.
Other stuff tbd.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are affectionate, communicative, want more on the relationship end and less of the casual sex end of the spectrum (though I'm not talking big R. We haven't even met for fuck's sake!). You like animals, dogs especially. Fat isn't a shameful word for you (fat/voluptuous/thick/heavy/bbw/zaftig) and some fat chicks turn you on. I'm less likely to initiate contact unless I know you might like the bigger women. You are sex positive, and know what that means (Google it if you don't), have a high sex drive, and WE HAVE A HIGH MATCHING PERCENTAGE..(over 85%). Please have a filled out profile as well.

I'm interested in well articulated messages. If not long, make it relevant to my profile please. This just tells me you read it, and shows your intentions. Locals Only.

If you are a burner, say hi! It doesn't mean you want to date me, it's just a friendly thing to do. I tend to say hi to all the burners I recognize.