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25 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:00am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
UPDATE: just got a new job bartending in the evening!! i may not be as a available to write back all the time, so bear with me. still down to get a drink or make out in the shower or play video games or whatever. ooh or go to the beach?? i need to finish this tan up before august rolls around.


I am a: Writer of unacademic essays.
Drinker of goblets.
Taker of pictures.
Re-thinker of and now sorta unsure of the verb-er structure and moving on to the next section SORRY EVERYBODY

WAIT though: pronouns are he him his
What I’m doing with my life
Smoking weed more?? I used to go hard with it but took a break for a long time and now I'm back into it and really enjoying it again.

Anyway! Life is hiking/running/beaching/playing guitar/working at a coffee shop. it is a rad little life and i'm really settling into Los Angeles. Trying to expand into more: cooking, clothing, music and reading (I KNOW I KNOW. I used to be hella good at reading all the time).

Eventually I'm going to go back to school and become a teacher and re-write the whole thing, but for now I'm very comfortable hanging out and making rent on the west side for a little while.
The first things people usually notice about me
an aggressive mixture of femme and masc/butch qualities, which i'm attempting to navigate my own feelings about/expressions of. extremely sympathetic, happy to use words like "cute," "wonderful," etc. bc fuck a gender norm but also happy to use phrases like "crushin' it", "get 'em." ATM I present as fairly masc
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Little Dragon, St. Vincent, Madlib and MF Doom both, Avalanches, Twin Sister, Parquet Courts, Janet Jackson, FIDLAR, Outkast, Wavves, FlyLo, Missy Elliot, Ghosftace, The Clipse, Grizzly Bear, Thee Oh Sees

Broad City, Game Of Thrones, The Simspons and The Wire

Tom Robbins, George RR Martin's epic and awesome slog (I'm on book five! Finally!) Kurt V, bell hooks (in progress), HST
The six things I could never do without
Put some thought into this for once:

1) Radical self love
2) Good beer
3) Apparently, skateboarding.
4) Constant tumbling critical thought
5) A creative outlet of some kind, writing, drawing, making music, making art, etc.
6) Teaching

7) A roiling crowd of geniuses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Privilege and systems of power. How so many people really limit to two the number of sides to a story.

GEOGRAPHY. It's such a powerful anchor to our feelings and memories and here I go again.
On a typical Friday night I am
working, or if not out, watching NGE, reading with some candles or belting out Wavves songs on guitar in my apartment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
sometimes i legit get nervous about what people think about me and end up changing outfits for twenty five minutes before going out, or i just run late in general. it's not personal but it sucks to be on the other end of, so please bear with me while i work on giving less of a fuck.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
wanna go to the ocean/mountains/swamp/canyon--(sorry)? that would be that shit.
wanna lay around in yr underwear eating ice cream, smoking weed and blasting records with me? because that too is, supremely, that shit.
wanna tattoo me??
yr tryna date or just wrinkle the sheets with me.
most importantly, if you give people the benefit of the doubt and aren't a bigoted fuck. (Ooh or worse, like a good-white-liberal type? like if you don't watch Upworthy or MSNBC and feel like that's all the goodwill or progressive voice modern america has to offer. sorry, this is the neurotic judge-y New Yorker coming out.) basically, if you understand privilege and actively work to reverse decades of cultural brainwashing, hmu.