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25 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:55pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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please read my looking for section first, bc that'll save us some time :)
I am a: Writer of unacademic essays.
Drinker of goblets.
Taker of pictures.
Re-thinker of and now sorta unsure of the verb-er structure and moving on to the next section SORRY EVERYBODY

WAIT though: pronouns are he him his, and i id as queer rather than bi.
What I’m doing with my life
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Smoking weed more?? I used to go hard with it but took a break for a long time and now I'm back into it and really enjoying it again.

Anyway! Life is hiking/running/beaching/playing guitar/working at a coffee shop. it is a rad little life and i'm really settling into Los Angeles. Trying to expand into more: cooking, clothing, music and reading (I KNOW I KNOW. I used to be hella good at reading all the time).

Eventually I'm going to go back to school and become a teacher and re-write the whole thing, but for now I'm very comfortable hanging out and making rent on the west side for a little while.
The first things people usually notice about me
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super cute.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Little Dragon, St. Vincent, Madlib and MF Doom both, Avalanches, Twin Sister, Parquet Courts, Janet Jackson, FIDLAR, Outkast, Wavves, FlyLo, Missy Elliot, Ghosftace, The Clipse, Grizzly Bear, Thee Oh Sees

Broad City, Game Of Thrones, The Simspons and The Wire

Tom Robbins, George RR Martin's epic and awesome slog (I'm on book five! Finally!) Kurt V, bell hooks (in progress), HST
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Put some thought into this for once:

1) Radical self love
2) Good beer
3) Apparently, skateboarding.
4) Constant tumbling critical thought
5) A creative outlet of some kind, writing, drawing, making music, making art, etc.
6) Teaching

7) A roiling crowd of geniuses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Privilege and systems of power. How so many people really limit to two the number of sides to a story.

GEOGRAPHY. it plays such a big part in lighting up my brain and stitching together memories and feelings and literal, literal points of view that i think it warrants a big mention.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, or if not out, watching NGE, reading with some candles or belting out Wavves songs on guitar in my apartment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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sometimes i legit get nervous about what people think about me and end up changing outfits for twenty five minutes before going out, or i just run late in general. it's not personal but it sucks to be on the other end of, so please bear with me while i work on giving less of a fuck.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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most importantly, if you give people the benefit of the doubt and aren't a bigoted fuck.

quick breakdown
gist of this is that i'm not inclined towards monogamy right now. if we realllly hit it off in a super powerful way, i could maybe get there, but please don't get your hopes up.

i'm not looking for a traditional, monogamous relationship as i don't have a consistent enough schedule to promise we could see each other more than once a week rn, if we're being super practical

so right now, i'm really looking for three types of people:

1) cool-ass, hyper smart, radical/progressive politics-loving friends
2) the aforementioned, but with benefits and a laid-back attitude
3) folks interested in ploy-dating/group sex. this is something I've been extremely curious about this year and realllly want to explore some. so if you're a truly dope couple or triple, or know some cool cats and we all get along, hit me up!