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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Sensitive guys aren’t manly enough, but manly guys are jerks, right? Wrong!
I fuse molten metal with fire and electricity, but I notice your new hair-do and comment on it. I race fast cars, but can come home and cook a romantic meal. I build machine tools and motorcycles, but can sew my own clothes. I make my own beer, but make you feel like you’re the only thing that matters when we’re together. I’m equally at home camping or mountain biking in the woods or at the symphony or opera, and I can’t wait to see you in that swanky dress you got to wear to the performing arts center.
I grew up in Los Angeles and the Pacific Northwest and moved to Charlotte in 2004. I’m mature enough to know what I want and be honest about that, rather than play little boy games and tell you what I think you want to hear, and value a woman that can say the same. That said, I’ve only just recently gotten out of a very long-term relationship, and while I’m not ready to be thinking about getting married or anything, I am looking for something that could grow naturally into something serious, or just see where the wind takes us.
I generally like places that are a bit unconventional. I’d rather go for beers at Common Market than shots at Whiskey River, for example, and I spend a whole lot more time in Plaza Midwood or NoDa than I do in Myers Park or Ballantyne. I enjoy live music, everything from Rockabilly bands at the Visulite, to folk artists at Neighborhood Theater, to the Charlotte Symphony. I’m a roller derby fanatic, and until recently refereed, hence the stripy shirt in most of my photos. If I stay in, it might be to watch films by Tarantino or the Coen Brothers, or maybe some of the great TV that’s on these days, like Game of Thrones, the Walking Dead, or Shameless.
The things that I look for in anybody that I want to spend time with, particularly a potential special lady, are a good sense of humor and a willingness to laugh, even at themselves, a quick wit and a sharp mind, someone who can appreciate both the beauty of nature and the culture afforded by being in the city.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently divorced, but finally comfortable at work.

I'm happy in myself, but hoping to find somebody to hang out with and share happiness with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Once I put my mind to something, I become at least pretty good at it.

I fix things and build things - I'm a mechanic, a wood worker, a welder, a machinist, and a tailor (!).
I'm also a pretty good cook, bake bread, and brew beer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of nonfiction, but I've read some good fiction recently too. Some recent winners have been Assholes: a Theory, Ready Player One, The Five Love Languages, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, and Intellectual Foreplay.

I love smart movies by guys like Tarantino, and the Coen Brothers.

TV is a goldmine right now, with shows like Homeland, Game of Thrones, the Walking Dead, Boardwalk Empire, and Shameless on.

I love most music, and listen regularly to everything from Mozart to Motorhead, and Black Eyed Peas to Billy Holiday and everything in between. Also a big fan of rockabilly and bluegrass, and go to live shows whenever I can.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Craft beer, fast cars, good food, dogs, cats, and bicycles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Apparently, OKCupid questions.

I don't really have as much free time as it might appear, I just keep ending at my computer thinking "oh I'll do a few", and next thing you know, over a thousand! Maybe I'll stop now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having beers with friends, or...In watching movies and cooking dinner