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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:54am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Dropped out of University
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've come to identify as a neo bohemian and confirmed hedonist as well as a relationship anarchist. I'm bright, clever, articulate, well-read and have an impressive reservoir of random knowledge that comes in handy during trivia games. I live according to my own conscience and nothing else. I'm a Jane of many trades and Mistress of none. My idea of lingerie is a tank top and boy shorts, but my favorite perfume is Dior. I'm an odd duck. Quack, quack. :)

I am ambitious, amusing, and quirky
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- I just got back to Denver on June 2nd. I spent the last 7 months (since the first week of Nov last year) propagating edible plants at a greenhouse in South Seattle. I discovered that I have a serious talent for growing plants and am looking for work in Denver doing the same. While I was away, I took up yoga and started sewing again. Activity partners in these endeavors would be awesome.

- I live in a gallery/venue, live/work space in RiNo that caters primarily to the Burner crowd called The Fusion Factory. I am very excited to be part of such a creative community and to share the space with such awesome people. This sabbatical in WA has inspired me to take up new activities as well as restart former ones. I am hoping to organize regular yoga, hooping and belly dance classes at the space to start. My creative tendencies lately have been off the charts and I'd love to find someone(s) to art with. In general I would like to find some activity partners for such things as gardening, yoga, hula/fire hooping, hikes, bike rides, camping, thrift shopping, costuming, SCA and random adventures. I've spent the last several summers working too hard. This year I'm going to play a little and wouldn't mind some company. :)

-I'd love to meet people who are interested in eating and/or growing good food, getting physical activity outside of a gym situation, love body-mod, are socially rebellious in some fashion, are creative in some tangible way and/or have a thrift shop habit equal to my own. I need to surround myself with some peeps who share common interests and are hopefully as open minded as I am.

-I'm *very* Bi-sexual, have been involved in open or poly relationships for most of the last decade or so and am generally very open and accepting of all kinds of sexual and relationship styles and quirks/kinks.

-I'm a 18 year participant in the Society for Creative Anachronism and a Soldier in Dr. Steel's Toy Soldiers. My SCA habit has been all but killed by my complete inability to take days off the last few years, but I'm hoping that will change with the new circumstances. If you're a SCA-dian, please message me! Or a Burner or Toy Soldier!

-If you're still reading and I haven't scared you off yet, you might want to message me. Geeks, Nerds and Weirdos have a special place in my heart. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Networking. People and skills, definitely not computers!

Cooking up tasty noms on the fly with random ingredients.

Thrift-shopping. (Thrift shopping also involves garage sales, flea markets, estate sales, CL, FreeCycle, etc.)

I load a fantastic hookah bowl!

Growing plants. I have a wicked green thumb.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose that would vary from person to person, but I'd say my eyes (very blue), cleavage (plentiful and full), or maybe my often-changing hair styles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Top 10 Books/Series
Conversations With God- Neale Walsch
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy- Douglas Adams
The Omnivores Dilemma- Michael Pollan
The Portrait of Dorian Grey- Oscar Wilde
Post Secret- Frank Warren
The Fountainhead- Ayn Rand
Stranger in a Strange Land- Robert Heinlen
Diary of a Drug Fiend- A. Crowley
The Qutub- Andrew Chumbley
Anita Blake, Vampire Hunter series- Laurel K Hamilton

Movies: Top 10 Films
Tank Girl
Harold And Maude
Across the Universe
High Fidelity
What Dreams May Come
Waking Life
Hedwig and the Angry Inch


TV Shows: Top 10 Series
Lost Girl
The Spoils of Babylon
Adventure Time
Game of Thrones
Dr. Who (New)
Invader Zim
Red Dwarf
American Horror Story
The Lost Room

Top 10 Anime (so far)
Rosario Vampire
Elfen Lied
Kyo Karo Mao
Azu Manga Daioh
Heaven's Lost Property
Fate Stay Night
Girl's Bravo
Hetalia: Axis Powers

Music: Top 10 Favorite Albums: (for now)
The Man Comes Around- Johnny Cash
The Age of the Understatement- The Last Shadow Puppets
She Wants Revenge- Self Titled
Royal Blood-Self Titled
Life in Cartoon Motion- Mika
Mezzanine- Massive Attack
Dead Inside- Nicole Blackman with the Golden Palominos
The Least Worst Thriteen- Type O Negative
Entroducing- DJ Shadow
Pretty Hate Machine- Nine Inch Nails

Food: So hard to choose... My favorite 10 things.
Shaved Ice
Grilled PB & J
Tacos (with cabbage and radishes!)
Hobo Toast
Everything bagel with cream cheese and veggies
Ramen (real ramen)
Buffalo Chicken Pita
Deviled Eggs

Board/Card Games:
Let's Kill
Cards Against Humanity
Ticket to Ride
Trivial Pursuit
Candy Land
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Christian Dior's 'Hypnotic Poison' perfume. (My favorite!)
A cuddle buddy.
Shaved Ice.
A decent thrift store.
A notebook & pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be as awesome and do as much good as possible.

I also think continuously about how to best assist Dr. Steel's Toy Soldiers in our quest for world domination through toys. Please visit or for more details.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends on the town, but I'm partial to hookah bars, goth clubs and burner parties. If I'm feeling really decadent, I go to bed ungodly early with a book. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Naps (and sleeping in general) is easily in my top 3 favorite things to do. A box fan is necessary for sleep whether it is winter or summer.
My favorite place in the world to picnic is in a graveyard.
For all the rest, you'll have to wait for the book. ;)
You should message me if
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your life also needs a soundtrack, you want to get off the beaten path and try out something new or you want to be inspired (or do the inspiring).