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My self-summary
I've come to identify as a neo bohemian and confirmed hedonist as well as a relationship anarchist. I'm an outgoing introvert with a tendency to reinvent myself on occasion. INTP/J. I live according to my own conscience and nothing else. I don't proscribe to any particular spiritual paradigm, but borrow bits from several. I'm a Jane of many trades and Mistress of none. My idea of lingerie is a tank top and boy shorts, but my favorite perfume is Dior. I'm an odd duck. Quack, quack. :)

I am ambitious, amusing, and quirky
What I’m doing with my life
- I spent last winter learning to grow food in Seattle. Upon my return, I had hoped to find a job working with plants, but have found myself cooking instead and doing any other work I can find to pay the bills. Perhaps my dream job will find me yet that will combine my various skills. In the meantime, my schawarma is getting increasingly delicious. :)

- I live in a gallery/venue, live/work space in RiNo that caters primarily to the Burner crowd called The Fusion Factory. We have awesome afterhours parties and many other events, I highly recommend checking it out! I am hoping to organize regular yoga, hooping and belly dance classes at the space to start. My creative tendencies lately have been off the charts and I'd love to find someone(s) to art with. In general I would like to find some activity partners for such things as gardening, yoga, hula/fire hooping, hikes, bike rides, camping, thrift shopping, costuming, SCA and random adventures. Winter is the perfect season for indoor projects and I would love some company!

-I'd love to meet people who are interested in eating and/or growing good food, getting physical activity outside of a gym situation, love body-mod, are socially rebellious in some fashion, are creative in some tangible way and/or have a thrift shop habit equal to my own. I need to surround myself with some peeps who share common interests and are hopefully as open minded as I am.

-I'm *very* Bi-sexual, have been involved in open or poly relationships for most of the last decade or so and am generally very open and accepting of all kinds of sexual and relationship styles and quirks/kinks. I have a primary that I've been with for 8 years. He's currently living out of state. I also have a number of men that I've been involved with on some level for various spans of time. Monogamy for me is absolutely not an option. If poly is a no-go for you, please understand that friendship is all I'll have to offer.

-I am... interesting and not for the faint of heart or stomach. Message me at your own risk! ;)
I’m really good at
Networking. People and skills, definitely not computers!

Cooking up tasty noms on the fly with random ingredients.

Thrift-shopping. (Thrift shopping also involves garage sales, flea markets, estate sales, CL, FreeCycle, etc.)

I load a fantastic hookah bowl!

Growing plants. I have a wicked green thumb.
The first things people usually notice about me
I suppose that would vary from person to person, but I'd say my eyes (very blue), cleavage (plentiful and full), or maybe my often-changing hair styles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Top 10 Books/Series
Conversations With God- Neale Walsch
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy- Douglas Adams
The Omnivores Dilemma- Michael Pollan
The Portrait of Dorian Grey- Oscar Wilde
Post Secret- Frank Warren
The Fountainhead- Ayn Rand
Stranger in a Strange Land- Robert Heinlen
Diary of a Drug Fiend- A. Crowley
The Qutub- Andrew Chumbley
Anita Blake, Vampire Hunter series- Laurel K Hamilton

Movies: Top 10 Films
Tank Girl
Harold And Maude
Across the Universe
High Fidelity
What Dreams May Come
Waking Life
Hedwig and the Angry Inch


TV Shows: Top 10 Series
Lost Girl
The Spoils of Babylon
Adventure Time
Game of Thrones
Dr. Who (New)
Invader Zim
Red Dwarf
American Horror Story
Rick and Morty

Top 10 Anime (so far)
Rosario Vampire
Elfen Lied
Kyo Karo Mao
Azu Manga Daioh
Heaven's Lost Property
Fate Stay Night
Girl's Bravo
Hetalia: Axis Powers

Music: Top 10 Favorite Albums: (for now)
The Man Comes Around- Johnny Cash
The Age of the Understatement- The Last Shadow Puppets
She Wants Revenge- Self Titled
Royal Blood-Self Titled
Life in Cartoon Motion- Mika
Mezzanine- Massive Attack
Dead Inside- Nicole Blackman with the Golden Palominos
The Least Worst Thriteen- Type O Negative
Entroducing- DJ Shadow
Pretty Hate Machine- Nine Inch Nails

Food: So hard to choose... My favorite 10 things.
Shaved Ice
Grilled PB & J
Tacos (with cabbage and radishes!)
Hobo Toast
Everything bagel with cream cheese and veggies
Ramen (real ramen)
Buffalo Chicken Pita
Deviled Eggs

Board/Card Games:
Let's Kill
Cards Against Humanity
Ticket to Ride
Trivial Pursuit
Candy Land
The six things I could never do without
My spice rack.
A cuddle buddy.
Shaved Ice.
A decent thrift store.
A notebook & pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food. Rent. The future. How to better enjoy the present. Practicing gratitude.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends on the town, but I'm partial to hookah bars, goth clubs and burner parties. If I'm feeling really decadent, I go to bed ungodly early with a book. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Naps (and sleeping in general) is easily in my top 3 favorite things to do. A box fan is necessary for sleep whether it is winter or summer.
My favorite place in the world to picnic is in a graveyard.
I have an irrational fear of all insects.
You should message me if
your life also needs a soundtrack, you want to get off the beaten path and try out something new or you want to be inspired (or do the inspiring).