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29 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:22am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Life is wonderful and I am very blessed. I am on a big upswing right now. Chicago is the right place for me at this point, and probably will remain that way for at least the next couple of years. However I miss where I grew up. At heart I will always be a desert rat that finds himself in the Midwest.

During the week I run an after school program. It is a ton of fun. The kids that I get to work with are still at that point in life where the world has not sullied them. On the weekends I have the pleasure of being a youth minister to a church in the northern burbs.

I am not going to lie I really love God and the Church. That said I find it sad that many people have had bad experiences with organized religion. There is a great beauty in connecting with the divine through religion that cannot be equaled. Although I get frustrated with God from time to time I wouldn't trade my faith for anything.

On a more amusing note (after that serious little bit above it seamed reasonable) my movie collection seems to always be growing. I blame getting in my vehicle to go somewhere, forgetting where that is, and winding up at a Best Buy.
What I’m doing with my life
In general I am trying to love God and Love others though my daily interactions in the world. More specifically I am going to grad school with the intention of going into full time pastoral ministry in the next 2-3 years.
I’m really good at
Making timely comments and tasty tasty food. I also do quite well with public speaking and dealing with children.
The first things people usually notice about me
People tell me that I smell nice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
For a very optimistic person I really find myself drawn to works of distopian fiction.
Books: The Bible, Dune, Bless Me Ultima, Peter Pan, Evangelism After Christendom, On the Incarnation, Resurrection and Moral Order.
Movies: The Royal Tenenbaums, Dark City, The Big Lebowski, The Warriors (can you dig it?)
Music: Beck, Cake, Harvey Danger, and Ozomatli. Billie Holiday gets me every time.
Food: I love all kinds of things. I am a little partial to Mexican. Ethiopian is amazing. I have been on a big Sushi kick lately. I'm willing to try anything a few times.
The six things I could never do without
1) My faith
2) Intelligent Conversation
3) Family and friends
4) Books (Literate people make the best friends)
5) The Great Outdoors
6) Well prepared food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is on the horizon, where I will be in the next few years, where God is calling me, and the place of the church in our society.

How badly I want a dog but don't have the time to take care of one.

Fortifications for a zombie apocalypse
On a typical Friday night I am
Out somewhere with good folk, probably doing something that is a little bit stupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I thought that I was missing social cues for the first six months that I lived in the Midwest. Then I realized that the people were just that nice.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You feel so inclined. I enjoy talking to new folk.

You think that bow ties are cool.

You are looking for a true partner and equal.