1. If I rate you highly and DON'T send a message, it's because I'm a chicken and don't think I'll get a message back because you are too busy laughing at my pathetic attempt.
2. If you have a picture of yourself flipping the bird at the camera...huge turnoff.
3. If it seems like my language is posturing when I message you, it's because I'm nervous.
And 4. When I read your profile, I read the whole thing. Not part, all of it. That's how I rate. You get a low rating, it's not because I'm looking to be mean, it's because you aren't making an effort. Guys have to go through piles of shit to be noticed, and you figure "ok one picture and 'message me if you want to know' will work"? A little fairness can be real nice. Just saying.
There is a lot that I could write about me, and it would take hours to write a proper bio on myself, so I'll just touch on the points I find relevant to me.
I am a pagan, and that is not going to change. I have no problem with your beliefs, just don't try to change mine. I know pagan is a blanket term, and if you care to know specifics, feel free to message me.
I am expecting my first child in July, and he is my motivation in life. My ex is not on my list of people I ever want to see again, but unfortunately that is a legal inevitability.
I am former Air Force, and like to conduct my life with some semblance of structure. I have a few quirks, and some points of my life even cross into OCD.
I am a lover of many kinds of music, especially classic rock and metal. I like the darker sides of life, and prefer the outcasts to the in crowd.
I love to read, game, debate, exercise, and be physically intimate. No, not sex. I love sex, but physical intimacy to me is much more meaningful.