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40 Springfield, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:54pm
Asian, White
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to laugh a lot and I'd say I have a rather dry sense of humor. This site cracks me up on often reminds me of a mail-order catalog where you can flip through a million profiles until you find the perfect match...too bad real life (and chemistry) aren't quite so easy!

I'm pretty well traveled (25 countries give or take) and would enjoy seeing more with the right person. The last three places I've lived have been DC, Denver, and Boston.

I try to keep myself physically fit and one of these days I'd like to tackle a half or full marathon.

I believe that friendship, humor, respect and love are the basis for a solid relationship...but physical attraction and chemistry don't hurt either!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing my piece to keep our beautiful country safe and secure. I work for the government like most people in the D.C. area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making someone feel special. I've heard a good way to do this is to read the 5 Love Languages and then actually follow the principles in the book. ;) I'm also a pretty good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess I'll let you be the judge of that. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I filled this section out to give you some insight into what I enjoy but I hope you realize it's not necessary to be a clone in terms of favorite books or movies...although it's nice to share a few interests.

Favorite books: given a choice, I tend to gravitate to fiction...favorites are LOTR, Unbroken and Name of the Wind.

As far as favorite movies/TV shows go: I'm currently watching Game of Thrones...and thinking of watching Guardians of the Galaxy this week. (Update: watched it and it was both action packed and hilarious - plus it has an amazing soundtrack that just makes you want to sing along!) I'm pretty much game for anything in a movie theater although I also enjoy nights on the couch watching movies with someone special.

Unlike most men (or so I've been told), I enjoy Broadway musicals...the energy of live performances can't be beat!

Paradoxically, I enjoy sports and follow the Patriots, Red Sox and most of the local DC teams from time to time.

I also like exploring the local live music scene. So far I've been to shows at Wolf Trap, the State Theater (where I have seen The Legwarmers twice so far--love 80s music!)...and I'd like to hit the 9:30 Club and Jammin' Java in Vienna soon. Update: just watched Queen at the Merriweather Post Pavilion and the show was absolutely amazing!

Favorite foods: Thai, sushi, Korean, Cheesecake Factory Strawberry Glazed Cheesecake, plus whatever! I'm pretty much willing to try anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
Having fun
Keeping fit
Diverse cuisine
Coffee in the morning
A good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to make a difference...

How Uber is quickly becoming my favorite public mode of transportation.

Other silly things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing something fun...hanging out with friends, dining out, watching a movie, whatever you want to do?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I believe chivalry is not dead! Yes...that means I always pay ;).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Most of all if you want to. I know it's traditional for guys to make the first move...but please don't hesitate to say hello!

If you keep hoping that your next first date will be your last.

Oh, and if you know who the Legwarmers are. ;)