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28 M Baltimore, MD

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I love people, teaching them things, and learning from them! I enjoy eating, drinking, and occasionally smoking in excellent company, ideally around a campfire or whilst playing card and/or board games. I adore music and dancing of all types. Conversations that engage my intellect and imagination are appreciated, but those that make me laugh are equally as important. I try to be balanced, but will sometimes swing between being impassioned and analytically-focused. If I've neglected to include information here that you are interested in knowing, please feel free to message me!
What I’m doing with my life
● Re-answering another 1,700 questions on OKCupid.

Teaching at a local community college.

● Working an IT job to pay the bills.

● Working grueling and immensely satisfying hours at the Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire (formerly at the Maryland Renaissance Festival) and the Pennsic War, selling raw varietal honey, beeswax-based cosmetics, and candles.

● Working through an ever-increasing list of potential hobbies. Next on the list is wood turning, or concertina, or Contra dance, or something.

● Suiting up. I love to suit up.
I’m really good at
● driving like a reasonable human being,
● playing board games and card games,
● typing at high speeds with high accuracy,
● organizing music libraries,
● remaining largely realistic with a touch of optimism,
● using bullet points, and
● getting far too distracted by fascinating things.
The first things people usually notice about me
● I'm a red-head. I prefer this term to 'ginger.' Ginger belongs in cookies, not on heads. If you know what pfeffernusse are, we should be friends.

● I am smiling, and my beard is SO RED.

● I speak quickly, precisely, and occasionally say single words in accents from places that I have never been during otherwise unaccented conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This section has been excruciatingly trimmed down to five items per category. Feel free to extrapolate from there, and to ask questions!

Cat's Cradle" by Kurt Vonnegut
● The Complete Works of H.P. Lovecraft
● "The Silmarillion" by J.R.R. Tolkien
● The Harry Potter books by J.K. Rowling
● "The Golden Bough" by James George Fraser

(I cheated. There are too many movies I love, so I picked the first five that were rated five stars on my Netflix queue)
The Fifth Element
The Boondock Saints
Lars and the Real Girl
Shaun of the Dead

(Same deal as movie section. Thanks, Netflix!)
American Horror Story
Being Human (U.K.)

(This will probably have to change on a regular basis or be expanded; there's no way to represent a whole musical library in five dots. Thanks for trying though, Pandora!)
Blind Guardian
Ingrid Michaelson
Loreena McKennitt
Within Temptation

Curry, generally with rice or udon
● Fancy gourmet coffee and tea drinks
Trail mix/GORP
Soups and stews
The six things I could never do without
Barring biological necessities, I would say:
● good company,
● access to the World Wide Web,
● freedom of movement and expression,
● that other thing, and finally!
food, not as an aspect of maintenance of physiological function, I just REALLY love eating and cooking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
● Religion, philosophy, politics, kink, sexuality and sensuality, and queerdom.

● How I can help the most people.

● What to watch next on Netflix.

● Constructing a farm/commune/small town/interfaith sanctuary where I can grow crops (especially grapes and barley), have animals (especially sheep and chickens), and pursue craft hobbies (especially brewing and vinting). For someone whose livelihood depends on technology, I sure am eager to leave most of it behind.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
● I visited you and didn't message you. How rude of me!

● You want to recommend a TED talk.

● You are interested in chatting about nonsense and/or waxing philosophical.

● You would like to take tea.