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26 Durham, NC Man


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  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Today – 11:27am
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Working on Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I moved to Durham two years ago from Southern Californa and I still can't understand how people live without delicious Mexican food and year round fresh avocados. I like to read a lot, listen to music, brew beer, and play soccer. How often I can be found doing any one of these things can vary pretty substantially from time to time but I try to fit in what I can when I can. I've been known to ramble on about science or politics from time to time. Since everyone secretly knows the name of the bar they would open, I can tell you mine would be called The Gingham Dog after a poem I really liked as a kid. Apart from that, I want to go whitewater kayaking at some point, am terrible at corn hole, won't succumb to the south's love of sweet tea, and love board games but can never get people together to play.
What I’m doing with my life
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At the moment I'm in the midst of grad school. While I'm fairly certain I know what I want to do when I'm done, I've got a couple years still to figure it all out.
The temptation to drop out, fly to Malta and tend bar on the beach is stronger some days than others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've always been a jack of all trades master of none type person. But I do make some excellent beer and am a better than average goalkeeper.
And I can make a mean cup o' tea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently, my reading has been dominated by the Worm web serial:
Past favorite books include You Shall Know Our Velocity, Gone Away World, Discworld novels, Neil Gaiman stories, Looking for Alaska, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, A Visit from the Goon Squad, Oscar Wilde, Song of Ice and Fire and Walking on Glass. I'm always open to more suggestions and have a constantly growing list of books to read.

I listen to music a lot. Some of the things I've been listening to recently are Blood Orange, Youth Lagoon, Titus Andronicus, Tame Impala, Tallest Man on Earth, Mount Moriah, Delta Spirit and an assortment of classical music. I fully support the lost art of mixed tape making.

I could live my life on an assortment of sushi and burritos. Essentially any kind of seafood I love and anything wrapped in a tortilla is a wonderful thing. One day someone somewhere will successfully make a sushi burrito hybrid and it'll be the end of me. I'm really not a picky person when eating except for tomatoes. I don't really know why, I just can never stand them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've always disliked this section so it is now about cool animal things:
1. Otters have a skin pouch under their front legs where they can store their favorite hunting rock and food
2. In the cocoon, caterpillars release an enzyme that dissolves most of their body before rebuilding themselves into butterflies
3. Only half of a dolphins brain enters a sleep cycle at a time. The other half stays awake to make sure they continue to surface for air and not drown
4. When play fighting boy puppies will often let girl puppies win
5. Mantis shrimp have the most complex eyes and among other things can see ultraviolet light, can analyze polarized light, and have trinocular vision in each eye.
6. The average antelope can jump higher than a house. This is largely due to their powerful leg muscles and the fact that houses can't jump.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The technical answer is my research. The real answer is did I leave my headlights on? I probably totally left them on... maybe. (I leave them on a lot) I hope I didn't. What should I eat for lunch? Maybe I'll go home for lunch and then I can walk my dog. Was my meeting today? no no no. Tomorrow. At 230? I should start keeping a better calendar. That's silly, I never remember to look at my calendar..........
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like the Beach Boys more than I like The Beatles. A lot of people seem to be bothered by this.
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You can be the Elaine to my Jerry.