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31 DeKalb, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:10pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a quiet odd one (INTJ if you are into MBTI), difficult to approach, but very sincere once you get me talking. I like to be with equally intelligent and sincere people who aren't afraid to challenge me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a career academic, hoping to complete a PhD in math and become a professor. My particular interests are in cryptography and cybersecurity. I wear a lot of hats at NIU and I'm glad to see the work I do have an impact. I usually have a lot of work on my schedule, but I go out to eat and drink with friends often enough. During my spare time, I like to catch up on what's happening in current events and what's new in TV and movie land or just dilly-dally online.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of stuff - I have a wide array of skills according to most. My core set is in programming and information technology, but my training in systems analysis has given me a lot for working with people as well. So, leadership and organization administration seems to be my next best set. I've also been accused of being creative, though not in an artistic way, and I'd guess that comes out in my writing, use of analogies, and coming up with good ideas.

I wouldn't say I'm good at it, but I have also been trying to learn to play the violin for a number of years now... still working on vibrato, but it's been fun nonetheless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Cryptonomicon, In the Beginning was the Command Line...

Movies: Mostly action and sci-fi, Iron Man, The Matrix, Fight Club, Star Wars, Star Trek, Van Helsing, Underworld, and comedies like Groundhog Day

Shows: Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Band of Brothers, Archer, Futurama, Last Week Tonight, Frontline. Do youtube channels count? zefrank1, HISHE, CGP Grey, and vlogbrothers.

Music: AC/DC, Alice in Chains, Apocalyptica, Metallica, Ozzy, Crystal Method, Guns n' Roses, Nirvana, The Offspring, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Smashing Pumpkins, Soundgarden

Video games: Portal, Skyrim, Myst, Shadow of the Colossus, Eve Online
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
todo list
bullshit meter
jeans and tshirts... I have simple needs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
university politics
when, where, and how I'm going to find someone who 'gets' me
gender roles
where I can find statistics/data on something
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at the bar. If it's been a particularly stressful week, I may just flop early.
You should message me if
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You can sing the elements, want kids, arrive precisely when you mean to, have your own quirky little passions, and like to get a little buzzed and have long conversations.