Well, what about me? Where do I start? Let's start with where I'm from. I was born in Santa Barbara, California. My parents divorced when I was still a little basketball (2 year old baby.) My mother got custody of me, thus, taking me to Texas with her. That is where I spent most of my life. I lived in Italy for a year when I was in the Air Force before coming back home to Texas. At this point of my life, my mom was and still is out of my life. She is a drug and alcohol abuser, not my allies at all. My only family is my grandfather. This man taught me the true value of loving another and how to be a man and things I could only begin to describe. My grandparents were married almost 52 years before she passed away. That is true love for ya. Anyway, I moved to Oklahoma on 4 July 2011. Let me tell you why, I'm sure you asked. I came up here to build a new life and be my own man. I've hit a few rough patches since I've been here, like living out of my truck for the first 8 months. Now, I'm just focusing on achieving success. That I will get to now.
I'm a weather crazy person (hence the wx for weather.) I've been studying the weather for as long as I can remember. One day, I'm going to go to OU, where I will pursue my PhD in my obsession. I love storm chasing and forecasting my own chases. Just anything weather related makes me happy. I'm going to Rose State starting spring of 2013 to start pursuing my associates. I've been putting off my dreams too long, time to make them real. Now, like anyone, I have my down days. From my life in the Air Force, I developed depression. Gratefully, it's gotten better since the start of 2013. That is probably my biggest flaw. What am I looking for in a match? Keep reading.
Well, this is tricky. I have a thing for older women, their maturity is evident. Regardless of age, I'm wanting someone to tag along, not be on a leash. This means someone who is proactive in their life, has goals and prospects. Someone who will be a part of my life, just like I would with them. Someone who doesn't see a nice guy and immediately turn him down because he is overboard friendly. Someone I can take storm chasing and have a great time with. When we are out in public, that my possible queen to be treats me like royalty, as I would do the same for her. When with her friends, she is not ashamed to show me off. Someone who does not use sex to make me stay. I love sex, sure, but life has more fun than just being in the bed making steam. Be you, don't be someone you are not, it's annoying and a problem I'm not wanting. Ok, so to summarize.
A lot of potential matches I message. They come, look, and walk away. I'm not a museum or a statue. If that is how you treat me, you need to grow up. If I give you five minutes to compliment you, show some respect. If you are not interested, simple, just tell me that and I will go my way. If you want to play games, there are plenty of jerks out there who love to play back. I'm not an asshole, but I'm tired of emotional head games. If you can't love me, accept what my life has been through, and see a future with me, move on. Anyway, hey, thanks for reading. If you just need someone to talk to, I don't mind listening and maybe helping. Just don't think my kindness is weakness for whatever reason. You are mature enough to use this site, act on that maturity as well. Thanks for reading, happy new year. (I live like there is no tomorrow. To me, every day is a new year of adventure.)