Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


37 M Redondo Beach, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What is the best way explain myself and what I am about at this point in life?

"L - I - V - I - N!!" quote a character from one of my favorite movies. Just surviving is boring.

To that point I have decided that instead of just cruising along in blissful ignorance by myself that it would be great to have someone riding shotgun while we watch life whiz by the window!

Seriously though, I can get going too fast sometimes and things are passing me by or maybe I am passing by them, but either way I have certainly seen the need to slow down and focus on some aspects of my life I didn't put as a priority in the past. I have had serious relationships of course, but never what I would call a challenge. Let's keep that in a positive light too, unless your only goal is to drive me mad. I just believe someone of the fairer sex that can bring out qualities you may not know you had would be a welcome addition to my generally happy world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try not to take things 2 seriously, b/c let's face it, there are plenty of other people out there doing that for us and life is too short. For the most part spending quality time with family and friends whenever possible and trying to see the world. I like to do different things and often get asked, "why?" The best answer to that is "why not?"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting the most out of a weekend; pointing out weakness in the structural design of something & then crawling on it anyway; planning a trip
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Always smiling...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Big movie buff of all types, some of my favorites are Apocalypse Now, Grosse Pointe Blank & Point Break. Music I cannot live without. I am generally the person always dropping new bands on people because I love to discover new music & go see live shows. Mostly rock, Americana or alternative stuff, but once again, I appreciate everything from Pearl Jam to Johnny Cash to Surfer Blood (who?!....exactly, but you might like them)

I read a fair amount too, usually fiction though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ice tea, fans, pizza, iPod, kayak, the great outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I might meet interesting people & make some new friends; How best to avoid sitting on my couch in my free time; where to go on my next vacation;
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually spending time with friends over a few drinks, dinner and what have you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm using a dating website..."Gasp!"
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Someone who isn't looking to settle down and build a relationship b/c they feel like they should, but because they desire to spend time learning about each other, love, and what "together" really means. She is someone who respects & loves her family & friends, has her own hobbies and enjoys being a successful, independent human being. She is stable, happy and secure in her own life and knows the value of things worth waiting for. She is not scared to follow a path outside the norm.