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23 • Stanwood, MI • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- May 11
- 5' 8" (1.73m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Other and it’s important
- Working on University
- Has kids and might want more
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
I own a graphic design business, but I've put it on hold indefinitely to focus on other areas of my life. I'm currently working as a security guard at Menards while going to school.
I'm double-majoring in Forensic Biology and Industrial Chemistry Technology at Ferris. My minor is Criminal Justice. I love learning about anything and I highly value knowledge and intelligence.
I spent two weeks in May 2013 on a study abroad trip in Germany and Austria. It was absolutely amazing and I can't wait to go back someday! I could write a book on everything I saw, experienced, and felt while I was there and I don't want to bore you all, so suffice it to say: IT WAS AWESOME.
Grades are very important to me and if you wouldn't be okay with me spending most of my time on school and work, then just click the little X at the top of this page. I've had relationships end in the past partly because they weren't happy that I couldn't see them everyday. I am NOT a clingy/needy person and I live my own life. My partner is an addition to my current life, NOT a replacement for it.
Also, I love to cook and bake. I'm always making elaborate meals, baking bread, and making delicious desserts. I love having someone to cook for and I usually give my creations to coworkers, friends, and family.
People tend to notice how weird I get around friends and family, but also how mature and caring I am. My entire life I've had people tell me that they can't believe how mature I am for my age. My mom jokes that I was born middle aged, haha. That's not to say I don't like to have fun, but I'm responsible about it.
Oh, and my favorite colors are teal and yellow.
5. Intellectual stimulation.
2. My glasses.
1. My cats.
-You have decent grammar and spelling abilities and choose to employ them on a regular basis.
-You like cats. Not just tolerate, but like, or even love, them. I am a crazy cat lady and if you don't like cats, we will not work out.
-You have your own transportation, a source of income, and a solid place to live (i.e. Not couch-hopping or crashing at a friend's place).
-You are willing to at least go dutch on dates. I was very surprised at how many people expect me to pay when we go out.
-You know what a pun is. If you think they are hilarious, you get bonus points. Cause puns are the best.
-You will at least listen to my terrible jokes and pretend to laugh.
-You aren't freaked out that my goal in life is to work for the FBI or some similar agency.
DON'T MESSAGE ME IF:
-You have terrible grammar. If I have to work to try to decipher your message, I definitely will not reply.
-You live more than an hour away and aren't willing to come to see me the majority of the time. Because I can't afford the gas to drive more than that regularly.
-You hate cats. Just thought I'd reiterate this.
-You are in a relationship and looking for a "third wheel". Being bisexual does NOT mean that I am looking for casual sex with you and/or your significant other. Because I'm not. I'm looking to find the person I can spend a very long time with. Like forever.
(I've had hate messages about that final condition, so I guess I should clarify: I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with polyamory! I actually fully support it between consenting individuals. I have, in fact, been in several polyamorous relationships in the past (twice as a teenager and once as an adult). It's just not what I'm looking for in life at this point. I want to find ONE person to, hopefully, spend the rest of my life with.)
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