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43 M Austin, TX

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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** As of October 4th I'm officially a Texan! I'll miss San Francisco but look forward to the adventure. I actually paid $2.85 for gas! When I left SF it was $4.13. Yay, Texas!

I have been to four weddings in the last three months and each one makes me realize more and more how much I don't want to be single any longer. Watching couples together, being there for one another, working together, sharing glaces, taking turns caring for the children, all this reaffirms to me what is truly important in life; relationship. I want a partner who values relationship, and who wants to grow old together co-creating a joy-filled and healthy life together

About me; I earn a living as a therapist working with severely traumatized children who live in group homes and I run a foster care department in for the agency I am employed by. My job can be stressful so when not working I take full advantage of my off time. I enjoy travel and exploration, learning about different cultures (currently fascinated with India), the performing arts (especially musical theatre.... No day But Today), long drives with the windows down listening to music, the NPR weekend schedule (This American Life, Wait Wait, Car Talk, Prairie Home Companion, Radio Lab), watching movies (although I'm rather selective of what I watch), keeping in shape (physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually) exploring mindfulness and eastern wisdom, reading, and doing what I can to help others. I do believe we can create a world where everyone wins. Plus a couple weekends ago I figured out how to save the world from the "1%". It's actually quite simple, just a slight shift of paradigm perspective. Not bad for a night's work of deep contemplation.
What I’m doing with my life
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Perusing Groupon to find new fun things to do; looking for an adventurous partner to go explore with. I have never been to Austin so would love to find someone to show me around when I get there in October.
I’m really good at
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Ranting existential BS
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Movies: Baraka, Waking Life, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Before Midnight, Joy Luck Club, Monsoon Wedding, Four Weddings and a Funeral, Somewhere in Time, One Week, The Girl In The Cafe, I Heart Huckabees, Salaam-E-Ishq, Samsara, Better off Dead, Dude, Where's My Car.

Books and Writers: The Power of Now, Be Here Now, Tao Te Ching, And the Mountains Echoed, Emerson, London, Blake, Huber, Tolstoy, Dalai Lama, Rumi, Kabir, Hafiz
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nelson Mandela's quote, "Sometimes it falls upon a generation to be great. You can be that great generation. Let your greatness blossom".

I'm constantly wondering what can I do to be "great". I don't mean "great" in the narcissistic sense of the word or the me-first I-mentality that has come to define Westernism. I think of "great" in terms of how can I be useful and make a positive contribution in the world while working toward creating a world where everyone wins.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an addiction to Goldfish Crackers. Oh, and don't even put a box of Cheez-Its in front of me :)
You should message me if
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your goal is to be in a committed long-term relationship. You view relationship as a path to growth, healing, mindfulness and consciousness. You know relationships take work, dedication and trust but you also know relationships should be fun, exciting, adventurous and fun (did I say fun twice)? I'm looking for a partner to grow old and fall apart with.