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- Ages 19–33
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:58pm
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from university
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
Enthusiastically LGBTQAIXYZN7, Kink, Poly-Friendly.
Nerd reference ----------------^
I'm an honest person who just wants everyone to have an equal chance at living their lives the way they want. I cook, I dance, I talk, and I love to experience everything life has to offer with the exception of hard drugs, and anything more illegal than breaking into abandoned property.
I'm currently looking for people to spend a large quantity of my limited free time with cooking together, doing community/social service with my housing co-op, ****cuddling our way through the winter****, eating out places we've never been before, swing/blues dancing, gardening (soon!), and more cooking! Let's have fun living life!
Currently helping to launch Philadelphia Service Cooperative; a low-cost housing solution for persons wanting to dedicate portions of their lives to community/social work.
Cooking at home, drooling over my friends cats or knitting/crocheting skills, getting drunk, dancing and playing board games.
I sometimes swing dance on Mondays and Tuesdays with the local Philly community when I'm not on a date or at a show. Come have fun with us! www.lindyandblues.com
- Problem Solving. I'm not always the fastest, but I'm usually right.
- PC building
- Pretty much any outdoor activity. Name one; I like it. Yes, especially that one.
I apparently look a lot like David Tennant. Come fulfill your wild Dr. Who fantasies with me! :D
Wine and beer are cool, but I can't handle IPA's cause of a genetic thing.
Movies: Anything Quentin Tarantino or Sofia Coppola, Fight Club, Ghost in the Shell, *Lost in Translation* (AHGH ITS SO GOOD), Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Scott Pilgrim, Science of Sleep, Schindler's List, Virgin Suicides, Sunshine.
Television: I'm not much of a TV guy, but there are a few shows I get on my PC. IRON CHEF JAPANESE (I worked with Morimoto once!), Anthony Bourdain, Adventure Time, The Walking Dead, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Big Love, Band of Brothers, Top Gear, Mad Men, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Community.
Books!: bell hooks, Judith Butler, The Time Traveler's Wife (don't you fucking laugh), R.A. Salvatore, Stephen King. I read a ton of professional cooking technical manuals/cookbooks. Modernist Cuisine, Under Pressure, stuff like that. I've started educating myself about the history of Feminism and the different struggles that different interest groups have alongside one another (POC, LGBTQ persons, and the struggles of men and women and everyone in between are all very different). I still have quite a ways to go though; I feel woefully ignorant in conversation with a lot of my acquaintances.
Music...Ah! I'm open to any genre. Jazz (Big Band Era) and Electronica (Trance, Downtempo, Dubstep, Lo-fi, House). The more lyric-centric the genre, the less I listen to it, though I have my favourite artists and songs from every genre just the same.
Lots of Drum and Bass recently. Got an artist to suggest to me? Get on that shit yo™
- Good food.
- Really fracking good hugs. At least 20 seconds long, preferably.
- Internet. It was a sizable moral victory to have made it to number three without having listed this yet.
- Cats. If you have a cat(s), you should let me see them :)
- People. I fucking love all of you wonderful human beings.
- Dr. Pepper. Because Texas.
Honestly, I have few needs; I live a simple existence, my goals are not expensive, they just require time and effort (and a little bit of money, but what doesn't?).
That's all I really can't live without, that's pretty good, right?
Games as an emergent, interactive art form. Esp in relation to more traditional artistic mediums.
Intersectional Feminism, and how I can be a better ally for women without inadvertently drowning out their voice with my stupid white man privilege.
The relationship (or lack thereof) between kink, fetish, and sex.
This is where I throw out a lot of buzzwords for people to find me by searching. Rape culture, intersectionality, sex+, sex positive, mysoginy, GQ, Genderqueer, Trans*
Calling out my coworkers for being sexist, misogynistic, bigoted assholes.
Now if you want to get meta and ask what I do on *my* Friday Night (Tuesday Evening-ish), I'm out blues dancing, doing karaoke, eating gelato, or just walkin' around and exploring the city :)
Hanging out with you?
I (not-so) secretly want to be domesticated.
I'm sexually aroused by the explicit exchange of consent between persons.
I'm two degrees removed from Stoya sexually, and therefore three from James Deen.
I'm not opposed to casual sexual relationships, but that doesn't mean I'm (necessarily) into hooking up blindly. I want my partners to be my friends. I want to hang out and have fun doing whatever and understanding that sometimes as humans we want and need that social/emotional contact with someone, even if it's just us saying "I love you. It's no big deal. It doesn't mean you're The One, or even one of the ones. It doesn't mean you have to love me back. It doesn't mean we have to date, or marry, or even cuddle. It doesn't mean we have to part ways dramatically in a flurry of tears and broken dishes. It doesn't mean I'll love you until I die, or that I'll still love you next year, or tomorrow."
You vehemently identify as an intersectional feminist and want to invite me to any kind of event or gathering with like-minded people, even in a casual context. I'd like to help somehow but if not I'll gladly take the chance to hang out with awesome people who share the same values as me.
You want to cook sometime! Bonus points if you have dietary restrictions like Celiac's, Veganism, Vegetarianism (and it's various forms), etc. I NEED people to cook with/for to keep myself motivated to cook on my off time; be my muse!
You can cut through the bullshit to get to who you really are as a person.
You think this is amazing: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rk7_dXIKt0Y
You play League!
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