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27 Philadelphia, PA Genderqueer, Androgynous

Genderqueer, Androgynous

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Mostly non-monogamous
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Howdy! My name is Dallas Walker, I'm originally from Texas, currently in Philadelphia. I'm at worst, a cook, an awkward dancer, a gamer, and someone in limbo between realism and idealism. I could just as easily be called a professional Chef, an energetic, communicative, empathetic, well dressed advocate for others who identifies as feminist and sexually Queer, is good with their hands, has a wise mind, an old soul, and a young heart. If someone somewhere in the middle of those two analysis seems interesting, I'm right up your alley.

Enthusiastically LGBTQAIXYZN7, Kink, Poly-Friendly.
Nerd reference ----------------^

I'm an honest person who just wants everyone to have an equal chance at living their lives the way they want. I cook, I dance, I talk, and I love to experience everything life has to offer with the exception of hard drugs, and anything more illegal than breaking into abandoned property.

I'm currently looking for people to spend a large quantity of my limited free time with cooking together, doing community/social service with my housing co-op, ****cuddling our way through the winter****, eating out places we've never been before, swing/blues dancing, gardening (soon!), and more cooking! Let's have fun living life!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working quite a bit, but I'm getting back my social life ever so steadily :)

Currently helping to launch Philadelphia Service Cooperative; a low-cost housing solution for persons wanting to dedicate portions of their lives to community/social work.

Cooking at home, drooling over my friends cats or knitting/crocheting skills, getting drunk, dancing and playing board games.

I sometimes swing dance on Mondays and Tuesdays with the local Philly community when I'm not on a date or at a show. Come have fun with us!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Cooking. Reeeeallly good at cooking, so that goes first. Seriously. Unless it's some new-age science-driven gastronomic shit that just got published a year ago (I'm looking at you, Modernist Cuisine), I can probably do it with little study.
- Communication.
- Games
- Teamwork
- Problem Solving. I'm not always the fastest, but I'm usually right.
- PC building
- Pretty much any outdoor activity. Name one; I like it. Yes, especially that one.
- Eating
- Kissing
- Dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
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Adjectives/phrases I hear ascribed to me regularly: Adorable, genuine, honest, real, safe, weird, REALLY nerdy, introspective, methodical, decisive.

I apparently look a lot like David Tennant. Come fulfill your wild Dr. Who fantasies with me! :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food = Everything. Jk but srsly tho guise my motto is to try anything five times. By the time you get to five you're gonna start to acquire a taste or something; it's my job so yeah. Here's a few for fun: Okra, Dr. Pepper, Goat cheese. Why do all of these things sound better in my head when I put MOTHERFUCKING in front of them? You wanna see me geek out? Talk food. A lot of my friends are vegan/vegetarian, so I'm getting the chance to work on my skills there.
Wine and beer are cool, but I can't handle IPA's cause of a genetic thing.

Movies: Anything Quentin Tarantino or Sofia Coppola, Fight Club, Ghost in the Shell, *Lost in Translation* (AHGH ITS SO GOOD), Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Scott Pilgrim, Science of Sleep, Schindler's List, Virgin Suicides, Sunshine.

Television: I'm not much of a TV guy, but there are a few shows I get on my PC. IRON CHEF JAPANESE (I worked with Morimoto once!), Anthony Bourdain, Adventure Time, The Walking Dead, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Big Love, Band of Brothers, Top Gear, Mad Men, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Community.

Books!: bell hooks, Judith Butler, The Time Traveler's Wife (don't you fucking laugh), R.A. Salvatore, Stephen King. I read a ton of professional cooking technical manuals/cookbooks. Modernist Cuisine, Under Pressure, stuff like that. I've started educating myself about the history of Feminism and the different struggles that different interest groups have alongside one another (POC, LGBTQ persons, and the struggles of men and women and everyone in between are all very different). I still have quite a ways to go though; I feel woefully ignorant in conversation with a lot of my acquaintances.

Music...Ah! I'm open to any genre. Jazz (Big Band Era) and Electronica (Trance, Downtempo, Dubstep, Lo-fi, House). The more lyric-centric the genre, the less I listen to it, though I have my favourite artists and songs from every genre just the same.

Lots of Drum and Bass recently. Got an artist to suggest to me? Get on that shit yo™
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Good food.
- Really fracking good hugs. At least 20 seconds long, preferably.
- Internet. It was a sizable moral victory to have made it to number three without having listed this yet.
- Cats. If you have a cat(s), you should let me see them :)
- People. I fucking love all of you wonderful human beings.
- Dr. Pepper. Because Texas.

Honestly, I have few needs; I live a simple existence, my goals are not expensive, they just require time and effort (and a little bit of money, but what doesn't?).
That's all I really can't live without, that's pretty good, right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Games as an emergent, interactive art form. Esp in relation to more traditional artistic mediums.
Intersectional Feminism, and how I can be a better ally for women without inadvertently drowning out their voice with my stupid white man privilege.
The relationship (or lack thereof) between kink, fetish, and sex.
Reading More.
Meeting people.
Gender Roles.

This is where I throw out a lot of buzzwords for people to find me by searching. Rape culture, intersectionality, sex+, sex positive, mysoginy, GQ, Genderqueer, Trans*
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting my ass kicked behind a stainless steel counter top standing in 120 degree heat next to a 750 degree grill with 20 orders hanging in front of me.

Calling out my coworkers for being sexist, misogynistic, bigoted assholes.

Now if you want to get meta and ask what I do on *my* Friday Night (Tuesday Evening-ish), I'm out blues dancing, doing karaoke, eating gelato, or just walkin' around and exploring the city :)

Hanging out with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty damned nerdy. We're talkin' king of the nerds shit here folks. Be ye warned.

I (not-so) secretly want to be domesticated.

I'm sexually aroused by the explicit exchange of consent between persons.

I'm two degrees removed from Stoya sexually, and therefore three from James Deen.

Lol Monogamy.

I'm not opposed to casual sexual relationships, but that doesn't mean I'm (necessarily) into hooking up blindly. I want my partners to be my friends. I want to hang out and have fun doing whatever and understanding that sometimes as humans we want and need that social/emotional contact with someone, even if it's just us saying "I love you. It's no big deal. It doesn't mean you're The One, or even one of the ones. It doesn't mean you have to love me back. It doesn't mean we have to date, or marry, or even cuddle. It doesn't mean we have to part ways dramatically in a flurry of tears and broken dishes. It doesn't mean I'll love you until I die, or that I'll still love you next year, or tomorrow."
You should message me if
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Fetlife. PLEASE let me tie you up.

You vehemently identify as an intersectional feminist and want to invite me to any kind of event or gathering with like-minded people, even in a casual context. I'd like to help somehow but if not I'll gladly take the chance to hang out with awesome people who share the same values as me.

You want to cook sometime! Bonus points if you have dietary restrictions like Celiac's, Veganism, Vegetarianism (and it's various forms), etc. I NEED people to cook with/for to keep myself motivated to cook on my off time; be my muse!

You can cut through the bullshit to get to who you really are as a person.

You think this is amazing:

You play League!