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You're over 35 and literate...
Over 35 years old.
Able to read and write like an adult.
You're a non-generic conversationalist.
I am not looking to jump into anything. I'm not in any rush. I'm
not going to make plans to meet you immediately. If you ask for my
number, you will not ever get it. Exchanging messages over one (or
two...or three) day(s) does not automatically make me interested in
you. I am not interested on wasting any of my time on something
that does not have significant potential, mainly because I don't
have that kind of time to waste!
If you ask me any question, including asking me what my name is,
that can be answered by simply reading my profile, our conversation
is over. You should be intelligent and creative enough to read,
comprehend, and come up with unique questions of your own. You need
to be interested in ME...as a person....and not just what I look
like, so if I can tell that you messaged me based solely on what my
pictures look like and not the content of my profile, it's not
going to end well for you.
DISCLAIMER (better to be honest up front..right??)....
I'm high maintenance (What does that even really mean?!
Whatever...point is it's not an insult, so don't think you can hurt
my feelings by telling me I am...because I'll just agree with you
and probably piss you off even more) and somewhat intimidating
(although the man I'm wanting won't be intimidated by me one bit).
For the most part, I'm sweet, yes, but I do have a bit of a bite to
me as well. I'm very feisty and can be a bit of a firecracker at
times. I'm a straight shooter and I'm not into babying and coddling
anyone. I DO NOT put up with bullshit, and I DON'T have a problem
calling you out on it. If you are scared, put off, or offended by
that type of personality then you aren't the man I'm looking for.
Don't take it personal, it's not you. It just is what it is.
I don't care how much money you make or what car you drive, so
don't tell me like it matters. Those things don't define your
maturity level or how you treat a woman.
Only serious applicants need apply.