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28 M Melbourne, Australia

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Well, how I see myself depends on the context it's asked from, as people are layered. All layers stripped back, it's only sentience, a blank canvas with no personality nor self (this is true of all of us; it's not just me being a lunatic). From there, going up layer by later... will/intent enters the picture, then the intuitive/instinctual levels, then emotional layers, somewhat coupled with the following mental layers of thought and concept, and finally toss in sensory input somewhere in the mix as well. From that more layered perspective sure, I've a personality and all the typical hallmarks of "personhood". Ha.

So yeah... I like being reductive like that. And no, I didn't read it in some "book" - things like that are my own conclusions. I think it's very valuable to do that - to form your *own* ideas of the world. But it's not exactly the trend - it's rare these days for me to find people I have a lot in common with, which sometimes sucks. But mostly I'm used to it - one develops a thick skin ;).

All that said, normally I just chill the fuck out and relax like anyone, have a bit of a laugh (I can laugh at anything really, no matter how inappropriate), and don't really go getting all that philosophical with people - I don't usually see the point anymore. I'm happy to let them be them, if they let me be me, with no need to push some ideology on them for self-aggrandizement.

But the dating game's slightly different... because relationships are letting someone into the inner sanctum of your life, and to me that's a pretty serious decision. For one I have to like the person I'm letting in there, and feel that their company is worth the effort, and for two they have to actually like the real me enough to be there. So I have to go "out there" and say all this shit to give an inkling of what I'm really like behind closed doors.

Yeeeaaaahhh. Should I have stuck to "hey girls I like to laugh and have fun!"? Nah, fuck that shit ;).
What I’m doing with my life
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Breathing, and other such things :).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Solaris, Hannibal trilogy, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep, Brave New World, We Need to Talk About Kevin

Movies: Solaris (1972), Blade Runner, Godfather trilogy, Sleep Tight, The Road, 28 Days Later

Shows: Hannibal, True Detective, The Sopranos, Dexter, The Shield, Boardwalk Empire
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating