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  • Ages 22–33
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Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What's to say? I find it difficult to talk about myself because I see a wide gap between what we think about things, and the way they are. I'm pretty self-analytical by nature, or used to be, and it lead me to realise that any true understanding of myself is much more basic than a set of descriptions can give. I honestly don't see myself as much more than awareness and intent, and even to say that is misleading.

It might seem strange that that's how I look at it, or that I even sat around thinking about it enough to come to that point. I dunno, it's always how I was "wired" - I wanted clarity in things, some kind of truth or understanding. It's a lot trickier than my younger more naive self hoped.

Anyway, I suppose for all practical intents and purposes I'm just like anyone. A "person", with a "personality", and all that stuff ;). I manage to enjoy life in my own way, I mean why not entertain yourself with it when you can :).

I gotta be honest too... I find small talk about shit like food, movies and what we did on the weekend painful. Or small talk about anything really. Nothing against it, it just does absolutely nothing for me. I only really want to talk about something if it's somehow fresh, new, or in the moment, or if it makes me think in a way I haven't before.

Granted I sometimes make the mistake of trying my hand at small talk, or pretending to be engaged by it, but I think it usually falls pretty flat ;). Hard to be a convincing actor if you ain't into the role.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying to be a counsellor (social worker/psychologist), used to be a computer programmer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing things from a lot of different perspectives.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The strangeness of life, of being alive and being human. We take it for granted because we're used to it and we become identified with it, but the bottom line is that it's downright surreal.

The nature of perception, illusion, delusion, truth, relativity, absoluteness. How slippery it is to find certainty about anything.

Though I think about these things a lot less than I used to - there's only so far you can take such questions.
You should message me if
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If you read all of the above and think we have something in common. Probably a rarity :).