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27 M Melbourne, Australia

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
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Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Introspective. Very introspective. I'm driven to understand hidden things and discover their principles, and what better place to apply that was there than mapping out my own mind? So I know myself very well.

Naturally then, that goal largely achieved, I now spend a lot more of my attention trying to figure out others. They're a confusing bunch, but mostly I get them, even if I can't always relate. Irrespective the fact they always present me with new questions is a big part of why I'm seeking to be a counsellor - I thrive on variety and being continually fascinated by things. And, sometimes, I can be a softy - so it can be nice to help people once in a while too.

Personality wise I feel like a jack of all trades, and a jester of sorts too. Sometimes life is just a game of experimentation and curiosity to me, me just observing it and rolling the dice, and being intrigued and amused by the results. But then other times I can be incredibly sentimental and deeply feeling, and I have a vulnerable/shy side too. Alternatively I can vary from being a warmly (or mischieviously) playful child, to being... detached and disinterested. And I tend to fully and intensely inhabit these moods, so it's like a movement from one deep rut to another.

Of course in the background I'm usually observing and analysing, so there's always a certain degree of distance between what's happening and me in my own head.

All in all I'd say I'm probably a bit of an... acquired taste.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying to be a therapist. Used to work as a computer programmer. Yes - it's a bit of a 180 ;).
I’m really good at
Finding things that intrigue me and then thinking and thinking or watching and observing until I have them fully mapped out. Just for the hell of it... for kicks. I don't know why, I'm just wired this way.

Skill wise, I think I'm a proverbial underachiever. There are many things I could probably be very good at, if I was willing to put in the time and effort. But not many things engage me enough for me to want to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Solaris, I Have No Mouth And I Must Scream, Brave New World, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, Kiss Me Judas, Roadside Picnic

Movies: Solaris (1972 version), Sleep Tight, Blade Runner, Akira, Ghost in the Shell, American Beauty, We Need to Talk About Kevin, Mr Brooks, Ripley's Game, The Remains of the Day, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Martin, The Road

TV: Hannibal, True Detective
The six things I could never do without
I'm deadly serious in saying only house, bed, food, water, and occasional company. I lived in spartan conditions once in the past, so whilst comfort and luxury can be nice I know I don't need them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything that piques my curiosity. I used to spend countless hours trying to figure myself out, or to understand life, whether there was anything more to it etc. A lot of that's a discarded pursuit now, I pretty much found where it lead me and where it didn't, and put it behind me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
No reason. Any reason. T'would probably help if you can understand and appreciate a horribly rational person like me ;). Marilyn Monroe apparently thought Einstein was hella sexy, so I hold out hope that a weird abstract sort of person like me has a chance.