(Actually I am originally from Texas, but you won't find a southern belle drawl here.)
I know it's, like, weird shopping for friends using Cupes. This is a dating site, right?? Yeah well, friends are just as important as lovers. I think a lot of people forget that. If someone makes a FRIENDING SITE (like, with matching algorithms and shit), I will be there, honeh. And no, this is isn't some creepy underhanded attempt at scoring girls for threesomes. My brain just doesn't work that way. Anyway, I've had a large amount of success in meeting people here twice before, so why not try again?
I've lived in Rochester for a few years now and met lots of people around here before. But 2013 was just all-around a very difficult year for me. Just about all of my closest friends moved away from Rochester. Even I moved away for about 3 months back to Texas, hoping to start a new life. Well, it's a long story but I ended up back in Rochester. I know and love this town, but I have to start all over again in terms of friends.
I would really like to make a female friend at the moment, mostly because right now I really don't have any! It's always been so much easier for me to make friends with men. I still haven't figured out the reason, exactly. I think it's because men are more direct and therefore I understand them better. But my closest female friends in the past shared a bond with me that, frankly, I've just never sensed with a guy friend. So yeah, I'm open to talking to dudes too (but no ulterior motives, remember?). I'm in need of an unbiased confidante at the moment - someone who will spill their guts to me and let me spill them right on back. This could easily be someone nearby or someone far, far away - male or female.
Ok. So here's some stuff about me, starting with things I like:
1) Adventure! Go to new places, try new foods, meet new people, hear new music, wear new clothes, smell new smells, learn new THANGZ. But I can also be a homebody. Staying in with a cat and a book/movie sounds marvelous.
2) Listening to stories, giving advice, and in general getting into awesome conversations where there's a comfortable interchange goin'. If it feels one-sided, I might get a bit bored.
3) Biking, looking at the sunset, being outside but not being bug-bitten, DANCIN', being silly, enjoying life and being alive.