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22 F Culver City, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 19–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:22am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Hello, random internet stranger! Pleased to meet you.

Since I feel like not putting this here would be disingenuous when I'm looking primarily for a romantic relationship: I'm trans. Still female, still part of the binary (though obviously recognizing it as being ridiculously insufficient for a lot of people).

My sexuality is... complicated. I can say definitively that I am not interested in anyone who identifies as male romantically, even just partially (which is to say: cis male, trans male, bigender, or genderfluid than occasionally goes to any of those mean no, but androgyne/agender/most other genders are fine).

I can never pin down my sexuality perfectly; I'm borderline asexual and yet I wouldn't use the word to describe myself because I still experience physical attraction. I just don't care much about the act itself, and would have absolutely no qualms with a sexless relationship (as long as it was understood and agreed upon going into it).

I am a nerd, and I make no apologies (because I would rather fight the dumb sexist nerds than distance myself from my interests because of them). This goes for video games (I play pretty much everything except sports and racing games, and there are some exceptions there, usually containing the word ‘Mario’), math (I didn’t spend four years getting a sheet of paper saying I’m good at math for nothing), history (a bit of everything- and this ties into the video games part, Paradox is my favorite publisher), and politics (because raaaaar politics).

On the note of politics, I am highly progressive- and I use the term progressive because the word ‘liberal’ means something completely different in the US than it does literally everywhere else. Don’t get me started on that, because I’ll start rambling about American political history. While I’m open to talking and debating with anyone, if you’re on the right either economically or socially I don’t think we’ll get along well enough for anything more than casual conversation (though if you're on the right socially chances are you wouldn't talk to me except to condemn me to begin with).

Also, in case it isn't obvious, I'm a feminist, and if you find the word at all offensive, please don't bother me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to find a job (having an imprecise degree in a weak economy is a terrible thing) and doing whatever else I want to pass the time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning things. I’m an information sponge *vlorp vlorp* (yes sponges do go vlorp vlorp what are you talking about).

Playing video games for hours on end- not necessarily playing the games WELL, but I can waste time like no one’s business.

Worldbuilding- designing fictional settings, cosmologies, histories, etc. I don’t actually write, but I’m a decent DM.

Doing mental activities faster than any human reasonably should (reading, math, etc)- I’m not really better than most people, just faster. All it means is that I’ll have as many mistakes as everyone else in half the time!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
From the top:

-I’m really tall

-I have lovely eyes (when they can see past my glasses)

-I’m apparently pretty intelligent (or so I'm told)

-I start off really shy and formal (though that’s mostly just my outer shell), but loosen up pretty quickly in smaller social situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Well I can't pick a single favorite of each, but I will go with categories. I put off filling this out for the longest time since I prefer making small talk of this, but eh, it makes for a good opening topic.

Books- Nonfiction, sci-fi, and fantasy, mostly. Realistic fiction tends to bore me. Bonus points if you've ever heard of Matthew Stover.

Movies- I watch very little. I don't get out to theaters often, and tend not to have the patience to sit down and watch things myself anyway. I've seen most classics at some point or other, and some bizarre obscure films (cinema studies at an eccentric private high school is amazing), but don't expect me to have seen most movies.

Shows- Same as movies, I don't really watch much. If you want to talk Doctor Who with me, though, I've seen everything from the 4th Doctor on, with scattered bits of the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd (the first two are just unwatchable gah). I'm also fond of Jon Stewart and his entertainment progeny (Stephen Colbert, Jon Oliver).

Music- In no specific order: The Beatles, Janelle Monae, of Montreal, David Bowie, Emilie Autumn, The Protomen, The Megas, Queen. I like more than that, but those make up the bulk of my listening.

Food- Chocolate above all. Then spicy foods. Not together, ew. I love cooking, though, and handle most of it for my family. If you have any good recipes, please pass them along!

Video Games (because what the hell OKC?)- Most. Though there's a particular emphasis on RPGs and Strategy games in my library. My Steam account is bloated beyond reason. The only things I don't really play are driving games and sports games (exceptions for both categories if Mario is involved).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. 0
2. 1
3. 2
4. 3
5. 4
10. 5
(since I only have six I'm working in Z5)

(yes that is just a math joke I am not ashamed)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics (and all the ramifications thereof), video games, history, and math, in no particular order. Also my patterns of thinking. And the fact that I think about my patterns of thinking. At that point... well, are you familiar with a matryoshka doll?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Mostly video games, sometimes other things. I mean it's not like Fridays in particular mean anything to me, what with no work or school.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There isn't much I'm not willing to divulge when asked, but I should put something interesting here specifically...

I have two decorative swords and an ornamental dagger. How's that?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're still at all interested after reading everything above this.

Or, alternatively, if you despise me after reading all this. Feel free to launch any insults you like my way. However this does not extend to slurs, if you're going to insult me, make them personal rather than denigrating an entire category of people.

Or if you think that this: would be the greatest Legend of Zelda game ever and want to sob about the fact that it will never be made.

(If I looked at your profile and didn't send you a message, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm not interested in you at all. It could just mean I couldn't come up with anything interesting to say. Sometimes that happens – plus, as I said before, I’m really shy, so sometimes I just curl up in a hole when I find someone who’s really interesting.)

If I've looked at your profile multiple times, chances are it just means I forgot I already had. It happens more often than you'd think.

Finally, message me if you think it's at all odd that this section is as long as it is. I just kept adding to it, and now it's kind of silly.