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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:18am
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Freak, poly, fun, geek. I'm thoughtful, smart, enjoy small groups of people, and can often be found playing board games (such as Arkham Horror, Descent, or other strategy board games), video games (like Left4Dead, because everyone need to be prepared in case of a zombie apocalypse), spending time with friends with good drink (rum and coke, meant for a pirate), or doing various types of evils with even better friends. I tend to enjoy people who are open minded about relationships, smart and not shy about it, and who like to have long talks about deep subjects, and who can then be equally at ease with snarking at the latest scandals or popular distractions.

I am sensual, quick-witted, and observant
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently improving the world one roof at a time by selling solar to the masses!

Not doing much else beyond planning a move and enjoying time with my partner, roisnoir.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not answering sections about what I'm really good at.

Ok...I'm good at creating stories, and role playing. I've been told I'm good at some other activities, but I think this isn't the proper forum to discuss those. *eg*

Also good at listening, problem solving, and snuggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long blond hair or my blue eyes. After they talk to me, they usually notice I'm a good listener, and really good at boiling things down for people. (like technology, game systems, etc).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There's a bunch..maybe e-mail me? Nutshell would be sci-fi, industrial and techno music, and simple Merican food. (No, not American. Merican. Said with a drawl from some area)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computers. Games. Coffee. Cigs. Intelligent company. Snuggling.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Is there a typical Friday night when one lives in San Francisco? There isn't, but lately it's been spending time with my primary wantfuzzit, enjoying watching news, the Daily Show and Stephen Colbert and cuddling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My primary is willing to help me re-write my OkCupid profile at some point.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for the possibility of having a nerd/geek friend, or if you'd like to meet a down to earth guy who's up for fun and exploration.

You are looking to meet new poly friends or lovers.

You're curious.