I tend to be very kind to people in my personal life because of my job. I am a newly appointed probation officer who supervises some of the worst kinds of offenders. I need that balance of being tough sometimes at work, and being able to be kind and sweet to those in my personal life.
One thing I can definitely say about myself is that I fully understand who I am. I love interacting with people but it needs to be something more than 'who such and such celebrity' is sleeping with. You'll see the glazed look in my eyes pretty quickly. I feel life is way too short to spend it being mean or miserable so I am always striving to be nicer and kinder. I know exactly who I am and what kind of person I get along with the best. I am the kind of guy who wears his heart on his sleeve. I know this is a turn off for some women but its who I am and I am trying to be as upfront as possible. I am the kind of guy who you'll find holding you tight in the middle of the night because all is right with the world simply because you are in my life.
Life is pretty awesome right now and I am completely happy with everything. But something can be said for meeting that special woman who can make life that much sweeter.