58 Vallejo, CA
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My self-summary
I'm a happy, some what outgoing, but definately love quietness and time to myself. People think I am an outgoing extrovert because of what I do. But there is a shy, quiet introspective side of me, I wish more people knew. I am a warm and kind hearted man who is a true gentleman. My friends say I'm a loyal friend, am easy-going, and easy to get along with, a great conversationalist, deep thinker type. I love life, people and enjoy hearing interesting stories from people's lives.

I definately have a soft spot for others; In fact I work at a homeless shelter for men and love feeling like I am genuinely helping some one else.

Among other things, I am a Motivational Speaker who has endured and overcome many challenges in my life. There is almost no greater high I expeince than when I am connecting with an audience heart to heart, soul to soul offering different pespectives that may help and give hope for change, or at least make their day! I absolutely love what I do!!

Also, working on a couple of books I'm really exited about! Can't wait til they are finished and published. I've already self-published two books one of which was picked up by Solano Junior College a couple of years ago, and a workbook I've written to help people develop their own self esteem was picked up and used by a chain of men's recovery homes in Solano County.

My "Self Summary" can be bottom lined by simply saying; I love really connecting with others, and offering genuine help and hope, having fun, and meeting new friends.

Also, let me say, I am not on cupid shopping for a wife! I was married 25 years to a very abusive woman. I am just really not ready to go there and probably won't be for a while! Wanted to get that out because I don't want to mislead any one. But if you would love to spend some time with a genuinely nice, caring gentleman - I'm your man!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my two teens. It is truly an honor and a privilage!!
I’m really good at
Listening to people's words - but hearing their heart . . . And communicating with others!
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, my smile and my perspective on life!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My Favorite Books:
'It's a Man Thing - Food for Thought, Growth and Change'
Portraits of a Poet, Stages of Life, Love & Legacy
Answers That Heal, Asking the Right Questions
'An Invitation To Succeed - don't just dream about a better day, do something abou it!'

My Favorite Music:
Contemporary & Smooth Jazz
Latin Music
Old School Funk / Dance / Soul Music

Favorite Food:
Thai Food
Authenitc Mexican Food
Good Old Fashioned (Home-Cooked) Soul Food
The six things I could never do without
My Children
Helping Others
Speaking To Audiences and Makng a Difference
Spending Time with YOU!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm too embarassed to say (ask me when we talk and I'll tell you!!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Wishing I was with YOU!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You have to date me to find out!!
You should message me if
I'm the kind of guy you are looking for as friend or MAYBE more. . .
You would like to spend a nice quiet evening at dinner with a real gentleman. . .
You are NOT on Cupid shopping for a husband
You have everything you need for a nice evening out, except a date! Call me. . .
You just need someone to talk to, I can be very good company, because I'm a very good listener and a great conversationalist. . . .
You are a very sincere person and you just really need a good friend.