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57 • Vallejo, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 37–62
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 21
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Christianity, and very serious about it
I definately have a soft spot for others; In fact I work at a homeless shelter for men and love feeling like I am genuinely helping some one else.
Among other things, I am a Motivational Speaker who has endured and overcome many challenges in my life. There is almost no greater high I expeince than when I am connecting with an audience heart to heart, soul to soul offering different pespectives that may help and give hope for change, or at least make their day! I absolutely love what I do!!
Also, working on a couple of books I'm really exited about! Can't wait til they are finished and published. I've already self-published two books one of which was picked up by Solano Junior College a couple of years ago, and a workbook I've written to help people develop their own self esteem was picked up and used by a chain of men's recovery homes in Solano County.
My "Self Summary" can be bottom lined by simply saying; I love really connecting with others, and offering genuine help and hope, having fun, and meeting new friends.
Also, let me say, I am not on cupid shopping for a wife! I was married 25 years to a very abusive woman. I am just really not ready to go there and probably won't be for a while! Wanted to get that out because I don't want to mislead any one. But if you would love to spend some time with a genuinely nice, caring gentleman - I'm your man!!!
'It's a Man Thing - Food for Thought, Growth and Change'
Portraits of a Poet, Stages of Life, Love & Legacy
Answers That Heal, Asking the Right Questions
'An Invitation To Succeed - don't just dream about a better day, do something abou it!'
My Favorite Music:
Contemporary & Smooth Jazz
Old School Funk / Dance / Soul Music
Authenitc Mexican Food
Good Old Fashioned (Home-Cooked) Soul Food
Speaking To Audiences and Makng a Difference
Spending Time with YOU!!
You would like to spend a nice quiet evening at dinner with a real gentleman. . .
You are NOT on Cupid shopping for a husband
You have everything you need for a nice evening out, except a date! Call me. . .
You just need someone to talk to, I can be very good company, because I'm a very good listener and a great conversationalist. . . .
You are a very sincere person and you just really need a good friend.
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