Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a happy, some what outgoing, but definately love quietness and
time to myself. People think I am an outgoing extrovert because of
what I do. But there is a shy, quiet introspective side of me, I
wish more people knew. I am a warm and kind hearted man who is a
true gentleman. My friends say I'm a loyal friend, am easy-going,
and easy to get along with, a great conversationalist, deep thinker
type. I love life, people and enjoy hearing interesting stories
from people's lives.
I definately have a soft spot for others; In fact I work at a
homeless shelter for men and love feeling like I am genuinely
helping some one else.
Among other things, I am a Motivational Speaker who has endured and
overcome many challenges in my life. There is almost no greater
high I expeince than when I am connecting with an audience heart to
heart, soul to soul offering different pespectives that may help
and give hope for change, or at least make their day! I absolutely
love what I do!!
Also, working on a couple of books I'm really exited about! Can't
wait til they are finished and published. I've already
self-published two books one of which was picked up by Solano
Junior College a couple of years ago, and a workbook I've written
to help people develop their own self esteem was picked up and used
by a chain of men's recovery homes in Solano County.
My "Self Summary" can be bottom lined by simply saying; I love
really connecting with others, and offering genuine help and hope,
having fun, and meeting new friends.
Also, let me say, I am not on cupid shopping for a wife! I was
married 25 years to a very abusive woman. I am just really not
ready to go there and probably won't be for a while! Wanted to get
that out because I don't want to mislead any one. But if you would
love to spend some time with a genuinely nice, caring gentleman -
I'm your man!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising my two teens. It is truly an honor and a privilage!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people's words - but hearing their heart . . . And
communicating with others!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, my smile and my perspective on life!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My Favorite Books:
'It's a Man Thing - Food for Thought, Growth and Change'
Portraits of a Poet, Stages of Life, Love & Legacy
Answers That Heal, Asking the Right Questions
'An Invitation To Succeed - don't just dream about a better day, do
something abou it!'
My Favorite Music:
Contemporary & Smooth Jazz
Old School Funk / Dance / Soul Music
Authenitc Mexican Food
Good Old Fashioned (Home-Cooked) Soul Food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Speaking To Audiences and Makng a Difference
Spending Time with YOU!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm too embarassed to say (ask me when we talk and I'll tell you!!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You have to date me to find out!!
You should message me if
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I'm the kind of guy you are looking for as friend or MAYBE more. .
You would like to spend a nice quiet evening at dinner with a real
gentleman. . .
You are NOT on Cupid shopping for a husband
You have everything you need for a nice evening out, except a date!
Call me. . .
You just need someone to talk to, I can be very good company,
because I'm a very good listener and a great conversationalist. . .
You are a very sincere person and you just really need a good
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