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WarmOpenHeart

43 M Memphis, TN

My Details

Last Online
Jan 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Adventurous, optimistic, emotionally intelligent, inquisitive, playful, creative, dedicated, affectionate, father of one.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning how to grow with each breath. Finding opportunity in each moment. Trying to plant seeds in fertile ground. Learning, teaching, parenting, stretching (in so many ways), dancing, pruning, coding, decoding, unlearning, prioritizing, crafting, building, shaping, computing, talking, listening, touching, loving.
I’m really good at
An eclectic mixture of things.

Listening to people
Teaching Design
Aerial acrobatics and circus arts
Computer Graphics
Woodworking
Holding hands
Intellectual conversation
Fixing things
Talking about emotions
Yoyo tricks
Creative problem solving
Being patient
Getting my hands dirty
Acting swiftly and wisely in emergency situations
Surviving in the wilderness
Pushing myself beyond my current boundaries
Collaborating
Sharing
Frisbee
Pool/Billiards
Shoe shopping
Sailing
Web coding
Wasting time on exciting diversions
Procrastinating
Being sometimes messy, but not dirty
Being an attentive parent
Being affectionate
Tying knots
Furnituremaking
Smiling
Dressing up (but only occasionally)
Being casual

I am a renaissance man.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really not sure...

Here, I'll take a guess or two...

That my eyes are ever-searching for meaning and connection, and very blue, though sun-worn.
That I like thinking about the big picture and abstract things.
That I have long eyelashes.
That I don't hold back.
That I can be accepting and have high standards at the same time.
That I am intense in my inquiry of life and all I meet.
That I am kind-hearted and empathic.
That I am persistent.
That I am hard to define (like all authentic people).
That I find value in all experience.
That I like details.
That I expect a lot of myself, but with good humor and gentleness.
That I have good taste in funky shoes or funky taste in good shoes.
That I appreciate the right tool for the job.
That I like to smile, laugh, and find joy in broadest array of moments.
That my arms and hands and embrace are full of love and strength.
That I like to dive deep... always!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
Funk, Soul, Electronica, IDM, Indie Rock, Pop, Disco, Blues, Down Tempo, World, Dub, Ska, Trip Hop, Hip Hip, Folk, New Wave, Punk

James Brown, George Evelyn (Nightmares on Wax), Boosty Collins, Blondie, The Clash, Squarepusher, The Mynabyrds, Bonnie Raitt, Holly Golightly, Luke Vibert, Peter Gabriel, Michael Jackson, The Heavy, Grace Jones, KRS-One, Grandmaster Melle-Mel, Public Enemy, New Kingdom, Diamanda Galas, Frostbite, The Sugar Cubes, Bjork, Camper van Beethoven, Steele Dan, Steeleye Span, The Beatles, The Stones, George Clinton, Funkadelic, Parliament, DJ Dimitri, DJ Krush, The Beastie Boys, Keyboard Money Mark, Sugarhill Gang, Stock Hausen & Walkman, Negativeland, Warp Records, Ninjatune, DJ Shadow, Luv 'n Haight, !K7, Kruder & Dorfmeister, Bob Marley, Lee Perry, Scientist, Agustus Pablo, Sade, The Kinks, Jello Biafra, Public Image Ltd, TV on the Radio, African Head Charge, Alexkid, Ali Farka Toure, Alicia Keys, Ann Peebles, Macy Gray, Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, Autechre, B-52's, Bahia Black, Bassnectar, Beats Antique, Ben Wa, Betty Davis, Bill Laswell, The Bird and the Bee, Black Dub, The Black Keys, Blood of Abraham, Boards of Canada, Bob Dylan, Bon Iver, Bonobo, Booker T, Brian Eno, Jah Wobble, Bruce Sprinsteen, The Bridewell Taxis, The Budos Band, Cake, Bulgarian State Radio Girls Choir, Capital Tax, Captain Beefheart and the Magic Band, Caribou, Carrie Rodriguez, Casual, Chaka Khan, Chicane, Chuck Prophet, Company Flow, Cowboy Junkies, Cracker, Curtis Mayfield, Cut Copy, Cymande, The Cure, The Cranberries, The Counts, ...
The six things I could never do without
Love
Music
Making things with my hands
Playful exercise
The touch of caring hands
Curiousity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why hide when you can show the world who you really are?
Meta-cognition.
Creative process.
Problem solving.
Foolish ideas.
Oddity and beauty and their closeness.
How things go together?
What's inside of stuff?
What makes stuff stick?
Why we remember?
How we learn?
What people are thinking and why?
How people are feeling and why?
How would I fix that?
Information arrangement and visual hierarchies.
Your hand in mine.
Technical parameters.
Is my body aligned for this moment?
Can my heart open to what is in front of me?
How do I take this apart into manageable steps?
Do you think I'm sexy?
If you want my body?
Are you going to let me know?
How can I find grounding in an ever-changing world?
Is it a contradiction, a logical fallacy or a state of grace? Or should I have said 'and' not 'or'?
Getting dirty.
Starting things.
Finding closure.
Opportunity.
Who you really are... I'd like to know!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with close friends and my son. Chatting, playing, eating pizza, having a glass of wine, and unwinding from a week of work and school. Not very glamorous, but very satisfying to be with open hearted people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't even know you yet! Hmmmm. You had better meet me and ask again in person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
A. What I have written makes any sense to you.
B. I haven't freaked you out yet.
C. You think I am crazy and hot, or crazy hot.
D. You are curious.
E. You are desperate. No, on second though, strike that. No desperate, please!
F. You are free to meet and interested in making a new friend.
G. You are looking for a new AcroYoga partner.
H. You like yourself and you enjoyed reading this.
I. You like watching paint dry.