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46 Costa Mesa, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:05pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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This is the fun part, the part where I get to say all the things that everyone else seems to be saying. I am a nice guy looking for a nice gal. I’m drama free blah, blah, blah.

Women want the fairytale and even some of us guys do (I know I do). The reality of it is that once the new has worn off and we settle into our comfort zones (in the relationship), we tend to think that the excitement is gone or maybe we lost the interest of our partner but that is when the real relationship starts.

A little about me

All I can say is that I am an average guy who is looking for my best friend. I am not off the cover of GQ or Men’s Health and you won’t be reading about me in Fortune 500 anytime soon. I am just me. A work in progress. I know I have a lot to offer to the right woman.

I have 1 Daughter who goes to Texas A&M, 1 Son in the Army and 1 son at home. I also have two step sons, who live in Texas that I love as if they were my own flesh and blood.
I feel the purpose of dating is to find the person you are meant to spend the rest of your life with. I am a bit old fashion and I believe communication is the key to a successful relationship whether it is with friends or a romantic partner.

I am a Christian man and I try to live my life as a good example of a Christian, but often come up short. So I am FAR from perfect. I hope to meet a lady that will help me grow in my relationship with Christ. I am shy at first but eventually I open up.

I would rather be playing a sport than watching it on TV. I love SCUBA, and anything to do with the ocean. I also enjoy building/fixing things, shooting, flying, Racquetball, technology and movies among a million other things.

The woman I am looking for is… Well, a lady and she will enjoy being treated as such. She is a Christian, moral, classy, intelligent and fun. She will motivate me when I feel like slacking and she won’t mind having different hobbies or interests than me but will enjoy sharing some of them with each other.

I am looking for a friend, a best friend. What greater relationship is there, then being in love with your best friend?
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to better myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to family and friends when they need to vent.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Bible and anything by Richard Marcinko

Movies: Action, Comedy, Romantic Comedy, Drama

Shows: Psych, Blue Bloods, Burn Notice, Suits, Magnum PI...

Music: Snow Patrol, Enya, County, 80's... I listen to just about anything. But I love Jimmy Buffett
Food: Any
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
True friends
The Lord
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my performance at work.
Getting my PADI certification for enriched air. (Done!)
My kids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with my son. Unless he has something better to do. Then, home alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You think we could, at the very least, be friends.