Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I haven't given this a lot of thought, but you should be above all
things: compassionate, considerate, genuine [honest] and
respectful. I want someone that is adventurous [and loves to
travel], educated [and hopefully intelligent], exciting, fun, and
passionate -- these are the qualities that should make me laugh and
smile at you!! Also, I'd really like for you to be able to hold
your own in a conversation.
....but you should also be cute/sexy, masculine [if you're a dude],
and well put together; but even if you aren't all cleaned up and or
dressed to impress, I should still be wondering how I got so lucky
:) Note: I'm a very casual and laid back kind of guy, and I think
that being high maintenance is EXTREMELY unattractive.
I'm looking for that one good girl or guy that I'm supposed to
share my life and grow with. It's not that I'm looking to get
married [because right now, I'm not!!!!], it's just that I'd rather
be with one person [monogamously] that I adore; as opposed to being
perpetually single, and promiscuously "dating." Essentially, I
wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that I couldn't
see introducing to my family, and being with for forever. I'm not
one to waste my/your time like that.
When I'm in a relationship, I'm the type of guy who wouldn't even
look at anyone else, ok, maybe I'd look at Miranda Kerr, but only
because she's famous ;) ....but seriously, nobody else would matter
to me in the way that you do. I want to be with someone that will
do the right thing even when I'm not there; and that wouldn't
interact with others in any sort of way that could be
[mis]interpreted as being "more than friendly." Therefore, I really
don't think that it's alright for you to surround yourself with
"friends" that you've been, or slept with -- loyalty is an all or
nothing concept to me.
As much as I enjoy sarcasm, please be upfront with where you're at
in life, and how seriously you want to be with me.