My perfect guy is going to be above all things: compassionate,
considerate, genuine [honest] and respectful. I want someone that
isn't only educated [and hopefully intelligent], but that is
adventurous [and loves to travel], exciting, fun, and passionate --
these are the qualities that should make me laugh and smile at
you!! Also, I'd really like for you to be able to hold your own in
Physically you should be cute/sexy, masculine, and well put
together; but even if you aren't dressed to impress, shaved, and/or
showered I should still be wondering how I got so lucky :) I
myself, am a very casual and laid back kind of guy, and I think
that being high maintenance is EXTREMELY unattractive.
I'm looking for that one good guy that I'm supposed to share my
life and grow with. It's not that I'm looking to get married
[because right now, I'm not!!!!], it's just that I'd rather be with
one person [monogamously] that I adore; as opposed to being
perpetually single, and promiscuously "dating." Essentially, I
wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a guy that I couldn't
see introducing to my family, and being with for forever. I'm not
one to waste my time like that.
When I'm in a relationship, I'm the type of guy who wouldn't even
look at another guy, and that's because nobody else would matter to
me in the way that you do. I want a guy that will do the right
thing even when I'm not there; and that wouldn't interact with
other guys in any sort of way that could be [mis]interpreted as
being "more than friendly." Therefore, I really don't think that
it's alright for you to surround yourself with "friends" that
you've been, or slept with. Loyalty, is an all or nothing concept,
and there aren't any gray areas.
I want a guy that'll be upfront with where he's at in life, and how
seriously he wants to be with me.