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29 Westfield, NJ Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 6:24pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My word is very strong. If my friends were to describe me the first word that would come to mind would be reliable.

I'm pretty flexible and open minded. I do seriously consider other people's input and suggestions and thus I'm quite agreeable to reason. I feel that some people get a little stubborn and can't adapt to situations.
What I’m doing with my life
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Focusing on my career and education.

Aside from that, enjoying life and relaxing. I find that many people burn themselves out fanatically chasing for one goal or the "future". I believe that the future will be bright if you take care of today.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Modesty is a virtue. My belief is that you get what you put into it, hence, the more time you spend practicing something the better you'll get. That being said, I am good at:

1. Any type of video or table top board/card games, billiards (pool) etc.
2. Chemical experiments (not that it matters here... so I'll leave out academic accomplishments)
3. Mediating disputes, communication.
4. Drawing
5. Composition
6. Does technique in lifting weights count? (3-4 years without a single injury)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well I never really asked people what they notice about me...

"Hey Mark, what was the first thing you noticed about me?"

When I first meet someone I usually am polite, smile, give them a firm handshake and try to make some conversation. Then it depends on the other person...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I wrote a pretty thorough list which got deleted when my browser refreshed itself.

Regarding entertainment I really don't mind... I'm pretty flexible. With regard to food I'm a little more strict (toward myself). I usually try to eat milder foods and avoid heavily fried or oily foods; this often steers me in the vegetarian direction, which I don't mind.

One of my hobbies (can I call it that?) is to open up youtube and randomly click on music and see if I enjoy it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Watermelon? (Food in general, but since my user name is so...)
*At this point seems like it would get kind of cheesy writing in stuff like "oxygen, water, Internet, so I'll write 5 goals instead*

1. Be baller?
2. Design more board/card games (1 already)
3. Learn how to play the piano/flute (wasted time playing the trumpet which you can't really play alone because it's too loud)
4. Drink every single kind of alcohol at least once.
5. Travel to every single developed country at least once while completing goal #5
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately I've been so busy it's hard to find time to worry about extraneous matters... but when I do have time I start thinking about all the things I want to do (and have to do).

How perspective from life experience changes you.

Adversity builds character.

Quote that I like from Starship Troopers (1997):

Johnny Rico: Mr. Rasczak, I want to join the Federal Service and become a citizen. But my Dad thinks I should go to college and remain a civilian as he has. What should I do?

Jean Rasczak: Figuring things out for yourself is practically the only freedom anyone really has nowadays. Use that freedom.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends:
1. Watching a movie
2. Having a drink(s)
3. Hanging out

Or having some quality time with myself...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Watermelon is a hell of a drug.

I'm starting to hate rabbits because they run away from you for no reason like you're a criminal.
You should message me if
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If you decide I peak your interest.