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Watirh

55 / M / straight / Single

San Rafael, California

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
Height
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am funny, playful, and dynamic.

My Self-Summary

How can one summarize oneself in words? The human soul can not be reduced to that which is understandable.

What I’m doing with my life

Trying to find ways to love the unloveable. To accept the unacceptable. Merge with the Great Creative Force.

I’m really good at

Writing short, pithy descriptions of myself.

The first things people usually notice about me

My ease with them. My acceptance of them. That they feel warmth.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books - "Never Judge a Book my its Cover"
Movie - "That Which Moves is Stagnant"
Music and Food - Since music is food for the soul, this question answers itself.

The six things I could never do without

Myself.
Are there really more answers to this question?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

...how to not think.

On a typical Friday night I am

There are no Friday nights where I come from. We go straight from Thursday to Saturday.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That I lie when answering these types of questions.

You should message me if

Not sure how to answer this one. I'm finally stumped, on the last question. I don't know what "should" means. If I tap into what I think it means for most people (assuming I have the correct interpretation), you might consider sending a message if you grok the above answers. But, beware, you can't just say, "Yes, I grok them" and have that be sufficient. I need to grok that you grok.

You need to be comfortable with a man who has access to all his feelings (I cry easily), to be dedicated to telling your truth and to hearing mine, to take responsibility for your experience, to communicate responsibly, clearly and cleanly. To hold that relationshhips are not about getting needs met (even though that's a byproduct), but about learning about ourselves through the process of relating. If you don't enjoy being "seen", you will be challenged by being with me.