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44 Rome, Italy Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

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Last online
Today – 12:56pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Russian (Okay), Portuguese (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I live in Italy and I feel kind of "trapped" here, since I used to live abroad for many years (UK, Ireland, Russia) and 10 years ago I had to come back to my homeland. So, I joined this website mainly to make friends all over the world.
I have a special love for Russia and Russian culture (literature, arts, films, and, more in general, what Russians call the "russkaya dusha". Russians will understand). Also, I do like to learn many languages (Portuguese and French are my last discoveries!).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My job is about editing and writing books, and I love it. I also love to study for myself. I am very good on developing theories about the meaning of things. I am afraid I am also "good" in getting things more complicated than due to please other people. Sorry for that: it's just the way I am - a reflective person, but also with a strong creative and playful nature.
Recently, I have finished to write a sci-fi novel and I hope to develop a graphic novel out of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I asked a friend for this and she said (about me):
1) Listening to people's issues 2) Creating new games to be played together 3) Surprising people about what I know, when I seem I don't care 4) Telling stories that keep the attention of the audience 5) Making friendship at a very deep level 6) Achieving difficult goals in life
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably, that I have a bit of a stutter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books and arts. All classic books (Russian novels, Shakespeare, Melville, Swift, Stevenson, etc.). Reading is my work, and also writing books - so, it's very difficult to answer this question. Oh, well, ok... I'll try. A couple of names about contemporary authors: Vassily Grossman as a novelist, Derek Walcott as a poet, Samuel Beckett as a playright, Kandinsky as a painter.

Movies. All Hitchcock's movies. Favourite film directors: Bergman, Tarkovsky, Sokurov, Herzog, Buñuel, Kiarostami, Resnais, Altman, Scorsese, Ken Loach, Truffaut, Orson Welles.
All "indie" movies: I enjoyed a lot "Lars and the Real Girl", "The Wrestler", and "Little Miss Sunshine". Sci-fi's (I love Battlestar Galactica and Star Trek - TNG, Enterprise, Deep space 9; Firefly) and sci-fi from 50ies. Tv shows: Real Humans (a Swedish series), Dexter, The Sopranos, and Monk!

Music. Rock/blues from 70ies. James Taylor, Genesis, Suzanne Vega, Tom Waits, Jethro Tull, Neil Young. British pop music.

Food. Japanese food (sashimi). All kind of fish. I eat everything actually. I have a very good relationship with food, I just enjoy it when is good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet, freedom, my books, my guitar, true friends, reflecting on things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophy. Religion. And again philosophy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have not a typical Friday night. Really, it doesn't matter. I am homely.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ach, this is going to be unpopular: I don't like dogs. I know this is a big turn-off for many. It seems all the world adores dogs: I just prefer other animals (snakes, lions...) and pets (parrots, hamsters, cats). Sorry again, I just haven't a good feeling with dogs. Cats come to me, dogs bark at me.
You should message me if
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You were interested by my previous answers. You think we have something in common. You believe in friendship before everything else. You have something to tell me. Just read what I wrote: my tastes, my ideas. I won't reply to a simple "Hi there". It's not snobbery, but... even a "ah, I love Vassily Grossman too!" or "why don't you love dogs?" are better than a simple "hi there".