I hate describing myself.......it is so hard to sound strong and confident yet not appear to be**** and overbearing. So I will use the word I hear most people refer to me as....."unique". I have a degree in physics, yet I was a bouncer (must be lucky I guess). I am a full time custodial parent to my two children, yet DJ in my free time. While I prefer to dress professionally...underneath it are tattoos and an earring..I also run my own business and have a full time side job.....so unique may be a good description.
I enjoy spending time outside. Really it doesn't matter what the activity is, just as long as it is outside. I just like the feeling of a mountain breeze on my face after a long hike, short run, or getting caught in a heavy down pour.
I like dancing, movies, bar hopping, outdoor activities, and a good time. Taking part in open minded conversations and are open to multiple possibilities. I feel that I need intellectual stimulation as an essential part of any relationship and it is very important to me. I am also looking for some one who understands that I have an extremely large time commitment to my children. My children really rock (yeah...all parents say that) and come before pretty much everything else for me.
I also spend six months a year coaching two recreation soccer teams. While it is a big time commitment, I enjoy that I can be a positive influence on younger generations.
I don't suggest challenging me to games of trivial pursuit, because I am full of useless knowledge that would only do me good on jeopardy.
The thing I am probably truly best at is turning chaos into sanity. It is just a gift I have.
Books-Just about any book that I can get my hands on.
Music-I have been a DJ for 15 years so I like pretty much everything
Food-Italian, Chinese, Mexican...Did I say I was 6'4" and weighed 240? It takes a lot of food to keep this body going and I do enjoy cooking. I find it very relaxing.
I also spend a fair amount of time just plain not thinking...trying to live in the moment and let what happens....happen.
Definitely don't message me if;
-You just broke up with your boyfriend in the last 2 weeks
-You are a serial dater....That is good for you, but I don't have time to do that.
-You aren't emotionally open to a real relationship
-If you think all guys are looking for just a quick hook up....I dislike being stereotyped before we even meet
-You are married and still living together....My moral code just will not work for this one.
-You are a swinger....Sorry, but not what I am looking for
-You are/were a guy....Enough said