I'm much more likely to react than act; but don't worry, I'm very good at it.
I love people that can help bring me out of my shell, show me new things, lead me to new experiences. In an ideal mate, I would greatly desire a need for adventure and enrichment that rivals my own. Someone that isn't afraid to initiate a conversation instead of waiting around for one. My one crippling weakness would have to be a lack of conversation starters, but once you get me going...
I love to make people happy and a smile is worth more to me than any amount of money. (Ok, well, maybe not ANY) ;P I'm very thoughtful and most anything I say or do is chosen with great care and inner diliberation. (Because, honestly, if I don't, I usually end up doing something exceptionally embarrassing and typically painful...)
I want to meet genuine human beings. People with a love for life and a desire for new experiences. People that I can speak my mind around and not worry about being judged.