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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-25
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 3:25am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
High school
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Depressed but very handsome.
In an open relationship.

I'd recommend reading "you should message me if..." first. If none of it makes you furrow your brow, message me! Or just read the rest of my profile and make your decision then.

I'm a musician/writer who probably should quit and become a teacher while he's ahead.
I'm INFP, if you think that's important.

Maybe you've seen me on Tinder. We don't talk about that.


I identify as a Feminist ally, and that is super important to me.

Maybe don't message me if you voted for Abbott.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing music, tumblring hard.
Sometimes I get paid to help you out with your phone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm correcting this to "what people tell me I'm good at", because I'm bad at self validation.

Writing music, taking photos, singing, disgraceful dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be really quiet. Almost painfully so.
It doesn't mean I'm uncomfortable or unhappy, it just means that I don't feel like saying anything is worthwhile that very moment.
Getting really drunk totally negates that though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Interpol, Tool, The Mars Volta, Toe, Glocca Morra, Karnivool, Vampire Weekend, Baths.
And right this second, Even Bother by Dikembe. I'll update that every time I visit my profile.
Look, a lot of stuff okay. I hate the phrase, but I'm gonna say it:
My musical taste is eclectic.
SHOWS: Hannibal, Game of Thrones, Elementary (infinitely better than the BBC version of Sherlock. I will fight you on that. I'm unsure about everything in my life but that, that is something of which I am certain), Parks and Recreation
I've struggled to watch a lot of movies since I got into binge watching TV tbh.
Pan's Labyrinth, Moonrise Kingdom, Moon, Up in the Air and Die Hard are pretty high up on the list.
BOOKS: I used to read so much, but I don't think I've actually finished a book since I was 17. Watchmen and Perks of Being a Wallflower come to mind. Those are two very different books.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a lot of Daria
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get embarrassed by how academic I'm not. Like y'all drop names like Keats and fuckin' Tolstoy and you're studying Ancient History when I've dropped out twice and I'm playing Battlefield 4 all day and swearing at N00bKillerX FUCKIN' GET OFF MY SPAWN YOU PIECE OF SHIT.
So yeah that's the only time I'll be getting like a "too scared of embarrassing myself and coming across as boring and stupid" vibe so that's why I keep visiting your profile and not messaging you.
Also, hella dominant.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're into social justice. You like videogames. You like being upfront. You're submissive in bed but happy to demolish the myth that this means you'll do everything I say without question. You use sex as an icebreaker. You'll call me out on my shit.

My relationships are casual and mainly about sex, cuddling and BDSM at the moment (though I dislike the term "just sex" sex is always loaded and I don't sleep with people I don't get along with anyway). I'm not really looking for friends, I'm very happy with the ones I have.