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WeAreBorg_

51 Collierville, TN Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:37pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate and affectionate man that enjoys an evening at home cuddling with my partner, drinking wine, and watching a movie. I'm equally comfortable being social, and spending the evening with a group of friends. I prefer a more quiet venue, where I can hear what people have to say: a dinner party, house party, or meeting at a cafe's for example. Small talk is fine at work, but socially I prefer witty banter, dry humor, and keeping a keen eye for whats funny in a situation (like that resturant scene in 'When Harry met Sally ;) ).

I've read online that OKC is a general purpose dating site, and that Match.com is more serious. So, let me take a moment to be clear about my intentions. I'm on the serious side of the dating spectrum. Sure, there's nothing wrong with keeping things simple and light; I did include short term dating, it can help pass the time (say no more, say no more, wink wink, nudge nudge).

Lets end with a list of some of my favorite things:
Favorite candy: Cadbury mini eggs
Favorite vices: coffee, chocolate, ice cream,
Favorite Hobbies: ceramics, weight lifting, health and fitness, book clubs, discussion groups, movie groups, hiking group, investing.
Favorite pet: My Golden retriever.
Favorite TV shows: The walking dead, The Daily show.

My circumstances: Divorced, employed, professional, non-smoker, light social drinker, very healthy, just starting to get back into the dating game.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I exercise, enjoy hiking, movies, attending book clubs and meetups, and I enjoy my work. We can talk more about this in person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at finding the humor in a situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very fit and muscular/thin, I like to laugh, and I prefer stimulating conversation, but not work related. I'm told I have a dry and witty sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'll just mention a few authors; there are too many books: Steven king, Isaac Asimov, Ann Rice, Tom Clancy, Steven Pinker, Richard Dawkins

Favorate romantic comedies: When Harry met Sally
Favorite old romance movie: The African Queen
Favorite superhero: The flash (He's the only one that's having a good time!)
Favorite comedy: Fish called Wanda, The ref, Monty python movies, pink panther movies, so many more...
Favorite sci fi movie: Blade runner, The Matrix, Aliens, Avengers, Sixth sense, oh my, don't get me started
Favorite horror movies: The shining, the exorcist, jaws, seven, Kalifornia, psycho, alien, aliens, the ring, Misery, the evil dead
Old Movies: Lifeboat, 12 angry men, On the waterfront.
Other: shawshank redemption
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My dog
My friends
My health
My mind
My vices: coffee, chocolate, ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The topics discussed at my book club and discussion group, and the nice lady I'm going to connect with here on OKC.

Why would a woman go to the trouble of filling out a OKC profile, specify that she's wanting a relationship, and when the question comes up, "How willing are you to meet someone from OkCupid in person", she answers "Hesitant". Why is it typically 3-5 dates? Why is that "Special blend" filter option so lousy?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies. On most Friday nights I attend a book club and we all go out to dinner together after the discussion. On occasion, I'll have alternate plans, which may involve a date, movie, or house party to attend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm single, I was married. Oh, there's so much more I could say, but you'll have to get to know me better first :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Ohhh, if you've gotten this far, just be bold and give me a "poke". I'll take it from there if we seem compatible; that said, you can omit the rest of my musings below:

You're a woman that prefers stimulating conversation over small talk. Like me, you have both the time and desire to develop a relationship. Lets take things nice and slow. Ultimately, you want a steady partner, and you'll look forward to savoring the evening hours, the way playful lovers should.

If you have advice for me on how to improve my profile, I'd appreciate the input. Thanks for reading.