#1) Girls on here get about 500 messages a day.
#2) Guys on here get about 3 messages a day
#3) Girls get propositioned on here by a bunch of sleazy guys. Scary.
#4) Of the 3 messages guys recieve, 90% of them are from girls who either look f-ing crazy or could literally crush them if the relationship progressed into a physical one.
#5) No one reads profiles to actually see if they might be compatible with someone else. This applies to both genders equally. Why waste your time or someone else's?
#6) If you are a girl and you have a bunch of cats, you have already given up - Not even OKC can save you - you've chosen to be single.
#7) Please send me your suggestions and I will update this in the future :-)
Ok, that fun OKC stuff behind, here's a little about me and what I'm wanting/looking for. I just moved to Uptown. Pros - being able to walk to dinner/chill bars, being super close to the Katy Trail for running, and being within 20 min of anywhere in Dallas. Cons - lots of pretentious girls and douchebag guys. Oh, and the high amount of drunkards on the weekend makes crossing the street exciting! I work in corporate finance, helping to manage my company's cash and large expenditures. It's not as boring as it sounds. Well at least it's not boring all the time :-) My life outside of work is pretty much a mix of working out, Netflix, church, hanging out with friends, and destressing fishing, having a drink on a patio, or at the gun range. Gotta support the 2nd amendment! I like going to the DMA and making up stories about all the pictures. That's fun for me. I also like random weekend trips to Austin/Fredericksburg wineries. That's my happy place right there.
What I'm wanting/looking for:
#1). Work out/take care of yourself. You don't have to be model think or rock a six pack, but I weigh 175, and want to date someone smaller than I am ;-) Sorry to be superficial up front, but I've got to try to dissuade the 90% of messages I get from people who fall into category 4 above.
#2) A kind/unselfish person. Again - lots of selfish people around me in uptown, so this one is on the top of my mind. I want a partner, someone I can rely upon to help me and vice versa.
#3). Someone happy who likes themself. If you're really unhappy in life, someone else isn't going to be able to fix all that.
#4). Someone emotionally available. If you just broke up with someone, don't try to date someone else right away. That doesn't work.
#5). Be a Christian. I'll lose quite a few here, but it's important to be on the same page with beliefs, both in how you encourage one another spiritually and in how you raise kids.
I just realized I made a "list". Meh, oh well, hopefully it'll help weed out the messages. You can message me and if you meet all the above I'll message you back. Likewise, if you don't meet one of the above, I will probably still respond, but only to shame you for your lack of reading my profile. :-). Wish you all the best - happy OKC hunting.