Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to VA Beach for my job in April 2009. I'm still loving it
here. I bought my first house in 2012.
I enjoy hanging out with friends, hiking the mountains, riding my
bike, casually swimming, and walking the board walk at the
My main focus on this site is to find someone to settle down, start
a family, and spend the rest of my life with.
As for what I'm looking for, my list is huge and contradictory. I
tend to see myself with one of three types of women:
1) Businesswoman - a company owner or MBA type who understands the
work it takes to build something. Families are essentially a type
of corporation, and will grow best with investment, energy, and
2) Family-oriented. My search for this type of woman is
predominantly outside of the U.S. I'm sure these women exist in the
U.S., but they are already married at my age. Я немного понимаю
по-русский. Я хочу знать больше.
3) Intellectual - someone who enjoys discussing philosophy,
psychology, science, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a full-time software/web application developer for an
international media organization. I enjoy what I do and work long
hours, focusing mainly on a website for a children's television
I am also looking at branching out and using my skills and ideas to
start a business of my own, so that I can achieve financial
Lastly, I'm doing everything humanly possible to get myself back
into shape. I'm making leaps and strides, you as can probably tell
through the progression of my profile photos. I'm not where I'd
like to be yet, but I'm getting there!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The values that others have stated they appreciate in me are:
My calm demeanor: I do not get angry.
Logical and insightful: I actually win arguments with women, AND
make them happy about it.
Meditative, firm grasp of human psychology. I actually understand
how to create happiness, and how to bring someone to a state of
I am also a bit of a study in contradictions:
I am simultaneously progressive and
I have a dominant personality, and choose to put others
I want a passionate, kinky sexual relationship, in which the sex is
secondary to more important, solid aspects like dedication and
I suppose what's really important is what I see in myself. That can
be summed up in three words:
CHIVALRY, CHIVALRY, CHIVALRY!!! This is my highest calling in life,
not just towards dating, but in all aspects. To me, this means
putting someone ahead of one's self in order to do what is the
I have lost relationships due to this in the past, more than once.
There often comes a point when doing what is best for someone means
telling them something about themselves that they don't want to
hear, knowing full well that telling them will push them away from
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TV Shows - Doctor
Guy, Futurama, Burn Notice, Full Metal Alchemist
Movies = The
,The Neverending Story
First Dates, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter... pretty much
anything sci-fi or fantasy. I also like dramas.
Music - I grew up listening to classic rock. I've enjoyed country
music in the past, but can't stand it anymore. Lately I've been
listening to more modern/pop stuff, like Pink, Adele, etc.
is my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Goals: Once all the basic needs are taken care of, what's the point
of being comfortable and content? If you're not moving forward, why
are you here?
Google: Why read/keep a book when you can look up almost anything
you ever want to know within a matter of seconds?
Family: I love my parents, and I don't know what I'd do without
Friends: I don't have a whole lot of friends, but the few I do have
mean the world to me.
Work: While goals tend to give work direction, it is work itself
that makes life meaningful.
Growing intimacy through serving and spending quality time with
others: That one's a bit of a mouthful, and presently, I guess I am
technically living without this one. Yet, I feel selfish right now
because I feel that there is someone out there who is missing out
on a lot that I have to offer in this regard, and I hope to find
someone who can benefit from a relationship with myself soon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Goals, making my dreams reality, helping people, making the world a
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my website, which will one day turn into a profitable
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing in this public profile. Message me and you might be
surprised though ;)
You should message me if
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