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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:35pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Ari is probably the greatest person in existence for many reasons. Men simply crumble under his steady gaze. His beard can warm bodies with a single nuzzle. Ari is gentle like a bear cub who won’t claw off your face because you’re hugging it too tightly."

Sheepishly riding the fence between a cantankerous old shit and a wide-eyed child.

Quirky. Strange. Genuine. Kind. Genuinely kind. Crass, but not cruel. I want to cook for you. I want to read aloud and do crosswords with you.

This site thinks I am significantly less kind/worse-mannered than the average user. The internet is funny.

I am Ignatius J. Reilly.
What I’m doing with my life
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• Homemade fruit jams.
• Wednesday night steak and cocktails.
• Coffee and cigarettes and crosswords.
• Bacon pancakes, makin' bacon pancakes.

Doing the office/managerial bit for a security firm in the south loop. I'm also half of a creative team working on putting out their own comic book.

After hours, you'll probably find me making dinner and having a beer with good people or getting down on some nerd shit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Making strangers laugh.
• Cooking.
• Talking shit.
• Turning dollar bills into art (

I've been told that I would be wasting my life if I didn't pursue a career in mathematics. I haven't.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm practically ursine.

I'm approachable and warm. Like, not cold. You'll probably want to steal all my heat.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Bukowski, Camus, Gogol, Toole, Hemingway, Kundera, Carver, Faulkner, R.L. Stine, Brautigan, Salinger, Vonnegut. I buy more books than I read lately - there's just something about the smell of a used bookstore that makes my wallet open.

Movies: High Fidelity, Super Troopers, Wayne's World, Clerks, Waking Life, Stand By Me, The Sandlot, The Big Lebowski, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Life Aquatic, Wings of Desire, Midnight in Paris, Ghost World, The Room, Amadeus, Harold and Maude.

Television: Arrested Development, The Venture Bros., It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, 30 Rock, No Reservations, Iron Chef, Ninja Warrior, Arthur, Eastbound & Down, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Boardwalk Empire, Whitest Kids U'Know, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Trailer Park Boys.

Music: Black Flag, Bill Callahan, Brand New, The Clash, Coheed and Cambria, Dirty Projectors, The Dodos, Japandroids, Menomena, Misfits, Modest Mouse, Netural Milk Hotel, The New Pornographers, Noah and the Whale, Oh No! Oh My!, Pedro the Lion, Pinback, Pixies, Rites of Spring, Rilo Kiley, The Smiths, The Specials, Sunny Day Real Estate, Vendetta Red, WHY?, Wolf Parade.

Food: Basically everything that isn't moldy cheese, most seafood, or jellied pork tongue loaf.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Cheerleader.
2) So-and-So.
3) What's-Her-Face.
4) The Ugly One.
5) Thompson.
6) Mrs. Commanderson.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
• Far-fetched schemes that would allow me to come into a good deal of wealth and subsequently homestead forever and ever and ever, amen.
• What people would look like bald (pre-balds excluded).
• How morbid it is that people regularly produce and eat a candy shaped like tiny humans.
• How anyone could possibly work up the nerve to take a shit on an airplane.

Certainly nothing too serious.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually work Friday evenings and then head out to see friends wherever parking is the easiest because taking the 'L' is for subhumans (that's only a half joke).

I don't get bar-hopping, but I do it. I have to be the right amount of drunk to get into some karaoke but then it's Billy Idol the rest of the night.

Board/video games, a big dinner, nice beer, or a few hours on the stoop with a cup of coffee and a pack of smokes are never out of the question either.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I honestly believe that the Jay-Z/Linkin Park mash-up album is God's gift to mankind.

I sort of hate people.

I still make prank phone calls.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to be read to sleep.

You'd like to exchange mail or music - or music via mail.

You fucking love Brad Neely.

You wanna do old people stuff.

You have the biggest dog.