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29 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:37pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a sincere, flawed, ill-informed, creative, and an emotionally mature person. I probably goof around too much to seem like I take life seriously, but I put in a lot of effort in my well-being, the happiness of the people around me, and my career. I judge the strength of relationships in my life by quality, and quantity of inside jokes.
What I’m doing with my life
Classically trained painter, worked as a concept designer for video games, and now art directing them. I kind of reached my career goals a lot sooner than expected, so I'm in the weird/good position of where 'where to next?'

For hobbies I play guitar in several projects, the latest being an ambient/black metal/shoegaze project heavily inspired by Twin Peaks. For fun I volunteer at the sf animal shelter.

On the weekends I'm just usually hanging it out at a coffee shop/park with friends, and and now trying to get a few outdoorsy activities under my belt. I never would have thought I could develop inadequacy issues from the lack of hiking photos until I started using dating sites.
I’m really good at
Being grounded enough so I may have the emotional capacity to be there for the people I care about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shoegaze, no wave, dream pop, lo-fi, black metal, post-punk, post-rock, post-anything really. I like it droney and heavy.

Currently listening to: Creepers, Deafheaven, Belinda butchers, Sadboys/gravityboys
All time favs: Slowdive, Weakling, Godspeed, mono, Ariel Pink, Beat happening, Henry's dress, gang of four.

Her, Royal Tenenbaums, Iron Giant, Miyazaki

SOIAF, Name of the wind, Speaker for the dead, Slaughterhouse five, Murakami.

Twin peaks, True Detective, Louie, Arrested development, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace
The six things I could never do without
Midnight runs
Sketch/alt/stand-up comedy
Short-lived obsessions
My inhaler
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have houseplants instead of cats instead of children instead of friends instead of a therapist.

How much John legend do you need to listen to to be qualified to work at the gap?
On a typical Friday night I am
Shows, drinks, dinner parties, art shows, binge watching good tv series, or whateves.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I eat like I'm going to stay single forever.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're kitschy, smart, creative, and altruistic.

If you you really want to message me, I'll be here, testing out my feelings online.