I grew up in the deep South but have lived all over the U.S. and parts of Latin America. I relocated from SF to BOS ten years ago, survived a divorce, got a graduate degree, and launched a new career. I make a lot less money than I used to, but I also jump out of bed every day and practically skip to work. Someone once told me, "you're both a nurturer and a warrior." I like that. I'm tenacious, friendly, cynical, joyful and grateful.

I am funny, brainy, and not hard on the eyes.

I've spent the past few years turning around a non-profit organization. Suddenly, I have some nice swatches of time available for hobbies and maybe even dating. I'm a do-gooder, but in a steely, business kind of way. I'm in a good place.

Having a big laugh even when the walls are caving in. Writing grant proposals. Riding a bike. Contemplating my navel. Crossword puzzles. Being visionary at work. Talking to a friend in need. I'm really not good at: keeping the fridge stocked, keeping my desk neat, remembering where my keys are, dotting i's and crossing t's at work.

Big smile.

* a sense of humor
* a sense of purpose
* intellectual curiosity
* spiritual wonder
* serendipity
* other people

the meaning of things.

You would like to. Caveat: If you are recently separated or divorced, I am not likely to want to meet you. Not because you aren't a total catch, but because I know how long the healing process is. I'll do great with someone "whose baggage matches my own;" that is, a few years single, in a healthy place.