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WenZen

48 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've been happily married for 20 years now and am the mother of two adorable children. My marriage to my husband Micah510175 is an open one and I have his blessing and support for taking boyfriends on the side. I am not really looking to fill in for anything missing in my life just looking to "add on" to an already great marriage and lifestyle. I like to get out, have fun, And enjoy life's opportunities. I want to create some great new memories with some cool new friends! Wanna join me?

Ideally, I am looking for a long-term secondary relationship with the right person(s). A steady friend and lover who I feel comfortable with and who understands and respects me, my family and my marital status.

I want someone who has the time, desire, and means to take me out to shows, dinners, outdoor activities or travel and am open to trying/seeing/exploring all the great things that life has to offer!

I am mildly shy and find myself more attracted to extroverts/assertive men who take the initiative to ask me out, plan and coordinate a date (sorry, "old school"). If you are counting on me to be the one asking questions and carrying the conversation then you probably have the wrong person. The men that I seem to click with are strong communicators, classy professionals, well educated, or in leadership postions. I do well with executives and business owners although an occasional bad boy can catch my eye!

With regards to meeting people, I'd rather cut to the chase and meet and the sooner the better! I don't like the endless e-mailing back and forth only to find we are not attracted to one another when we do finally meet. Kind of a waste of time for both, don't you agree?

Lots of luv and hope to meet you soon!
What I’m doing with my life
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First and foremost I am a wife, a career woman and a mother. In addition to that, I am working on personally growing, becoming a better person, and gaining new experiences. I have the blessing of a committed relationship at home, while having the freedom to meet new people, try new things, and go to new places. I am hoping to meet some fantastic new people who have something special to offer that will expand my horizons and bring additional joy to my life.
I’m really good at
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Being sweet and nice. Try a bit of Wen-zen and see how you like it. I am easy to get along with, flexible, and for the most part a classy friendly girl that is able to get along with most people and make the best of most situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
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It's a dead giveaway that I'm asian (ha ha!), but guessing my ethinicity is another challenge. I have a sweet friendly demeanor and a nice smile. I take good care of my physical appearance and workout at the gym a couple times a week for the physical and health benefits.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't have the extra time to read, but wish I could find a warm beach on a secluded island so I could! I love all kinds of movies, music & shows including concerts, operas, musicals, plays, ballets, etc. I like all kinds of foods except spicy (that's why I need to workout so much).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends and family
My phone
My freedom
My curling iron
Enjoying adventures and new experiences
My life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find great guys who are funny, creative, outgoing, non-jealous, non-possesive, charming, classy, and know how to please a woman!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends seeking a new adventure or home with the family if I need the down time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That there is a lot more under the hood than meets the eye!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
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