Ideally, I am looking for a long-term secondary relationship with the right person(s). A steady friend and lover who I feel comfortable with and who understands and respects me, my family and my marital status.
I want someone who has the time, desire, and means to take me out to shows, dinners, outdoor activities or travel and am open to trying/seeing/exploring all the great things that life has to offer!
I am mildly shy and find myself more attracted to extroverts/assertive men who take the initiative to ask me out, plan and coordinate a date (sorry, "old school"). If you are counting on me to be the one asking questions and carrying the conversation then you probably have the wrong person. The men that I seem to click with are strong communicators, classy professionals, well educated, or in leadership postions. I do well with executives and business owners although an occasional bad boy can catch my eye!
With regards to meeting people, I'd rather cut to the chase and meet and the sooner the better! I don't like the endless e-mailing back and forth only to find we are not attracted to one another when we do finally meet. Kind of a waste of time for both, don't you agree?
Lots of luv and hope to meet you soon!