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49 • Federal Way, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 36–43
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 3:20am
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Politics / Government
- Seeing Someone
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
I am fortunate to have secure employment in a field that I enjoy and find rewarding. My job is enhanced by co-workers and supervisors who I greatly respect.
Physically, I am 5' 11" and 200 lbs. I have never smoked, consumed alcohol, or otherwise used or abused chemicals.
Politically, I am genuinely a moderate. I do not identify with any political party. This does not mean I have no political views. I have very specific and usually strong opinions on most major issues. When it comes to faith, I am definitely not religious, but I am tolerant of the views of others.
Courtesy of my parents, I have a streak of old-fashioned manners built into my character. I will hold doors, speak with courtesy and respect, and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Our time together should and must be filled with enjoyment, not drama and stress. If we hit it off, I tend to provide detailed communications, be it in emails or in person. I am, or at least try to be, frank yet sensitive.
I am seeking an irreverent, kind, and affectionate lady with whom to share my life. Friendship and mutual respect are key elements. My ideal life partner should be informed, have opinions, and be willing to express them, as I will with mine. We should have some interests in common, but you should also have your own that you are willing to share with me. Should you want to share adventures and try new things, I want to hear from you.
My principal life goal has long eluded me. This is a healthy family life with a decent lady. I am looking for the One and definitely want children.
Favorite short story: Murgunstrumm by Hugh B. Cave.
Favorite writers: Richard Matheson, Lewis Spence, J.R.R. Tolkien.
Favorite movies: The Adventures of Robin Hood (1938), Casablanca (1942), The Colditz Story (1955), Fright Night (1985), The Invisible Man (1933), Kelly's Heroes (1970), The Lord of the Rings series (2001-2003), The Mark of Zorro (1940), Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975), The Night Stalker (1972), The Outlaw Josey Wales (1976), Raiders of the Lost Ark (1981), The Searchers (1956), The Thing from Another World (1951), The Three Musketeers (1973) and its sequel The Four Musketeers (1974), The Wind and the Lion (1975).
Favorite television series: The Adventures of Brisco County Jr., Barney Miller, The Colbert Report, Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe, Mythbusters, Kolchak: The Night Stalker, Nova, Soap, The Wild, Wild West.
Favorite music: classical (Beethoven, Wagner), symphonic metal (After Forever, Delain, Epica, Nightwish), rock and Top 40 (Amaranthe, Evanescence, Rush), New Age (Enya, Loreena McKennitt, Mannheim Steamroller), film soundtracks (Jerry Goldsmith, James Horner).
Favorite artist: Frederick Catherwood.
Favorite food: basically I'm a "meat and potatoes" kind of person though I like a lot of international food.
Please note that I currently have a basic subscription. Quickmatch or other "A list" functions will not work with my account so I won't know if you "liked" me. Regular messaging is the way to go.
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