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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 16, 2014
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Might want kids
My self-summary
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Interesting, interested.
What I’m doing with my life
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Wow, that's a bit forward. Buy me a drink first...

I'm chipping away at a career that builds on a background in Management, the Arts, Design and Construction. In my free time I enjoy drinks with friends, nights out dancing, fundraisers, volunteering, seeing bands, films, travel, bike rides etc. Looking to balance big city life with more outdoor adventures in the next year. I'm from the westcoast, so need to walk in a forest from time to time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whipping up a meal, biking defensively, drinking with friends, lending an ear, sketching on the fly, reading subtitles.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure...I guess I'll have to start asking?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Murakami, Houellebecq, Sedaris, Gladwell...
Almodovar, Allen, Greenaway, Coen Brothers...
The Wire, Mad Men, This American Life...
Austra, The XX, Jim Guthrie, Disclosure, Lindstrom, Magnetic Fields, The Knife, Arthur Russell...and always the Talking Heads.
French, Ethiopian, Indian, Korean, Homemade!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a queer community
the outdoors
a downtown pad
a job
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the places I've been, my career, my friends, what I like about the city, how to make things better, what I'm making for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to get to bed early, but it seldom happens. Volunteering in the morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As hard as I've worked to embrace queer/ alternative dating relationships, ultimately I'm hoping to find a LTR who I can share hot times with. Independent but together, that kind of thing. I've had it before, and know that it's what I want to find again. Of course this is not a conversation you'd typically have on a first date...but online dating is a whole different can of worms, so there you go!
You should message me if
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you know who Bjork is.

I don't really have a type, but some of the below might be nice...
-More hairy nerd and less clipped circuit muscle
-More left of centre and less fancy tie martini
-More awareness/sensitivity and less judgement of personal growth
-More extrovert but a little introvert ok
-More versatile and less top/bottom
-More intimate cuddles and less one night stands
-More witty/stupid funny and less sarcastic/mean funny
- More social justice and less me me me :)