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36 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from law school
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
My self-summary
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Talkative, out-going introvert. Though apparently not talkative when it comes to self-summaries.

I sometimes forget to get haircuts.

I'm over snark; it's overrated. I find earnestness a lot more appealing these days. I still have mean thoughts a lot, I just don't open my mouth and let them out as much.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a sort-of lawyer.

I'm considering writing erotic novels, using a nom de plume, for extra income. I think it's a brilliant and inspired idea.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, procrastinating, laughing, not burning things, baking cookies, thinking, common sense, battling frizz.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most definitely female. Anything after that, and you'd have to ask a more objective observer. I'm pretty subjective about myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Midnight's Children, The Handmaid's Tale, Beloved, others. So many others.

Movies: Heathers.

Shows: I dread the day that the Golden Girls streams on Netflix, because that is the day when I become an agoraphobic shut-in.

Music (my favorite albums): Loveless, My Maudlin Career, Parklife, Reading, Writing & Arithmetic, The Boy with the Arab Strap, Moondance.

Food: I eat it. Pickier than a goat, but not by much.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Walking, coffee, alone time, good smells from a kitchen, good books, a ratty bathrobe.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why certain, strange isolated parts of my legs seem to get sunburned; whatever book I happen to be reading; what I should be writing; why people wear jeans to the gym; and why do I care why some people wear jeans to the know, all of the important philosophical stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, out, in. Friday is not so different than Tuesday for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really dislike brie. And that's my deepest, darkest secret (maybe) (probably not).
You should message me if
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You're funny, and not a snob. And you don't mind an introvert (in the classic sense of the word). You love reading and want to have a book club of two. You want to drag me out of bed and into a park on Sunday, and then drag me back to bed again. You want to rent a car and go to the mountains. You want to camp near a beach. You don't lie about your height. You understand the importance of both conversation and physicality. You won't make me watch Family Guy. You think Adam Sandler is the worst. You have an edge, though blunted. You like wine. You like bourbon. You also like seltzer.