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West_Coast_J

40 / M / Straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I just turned 40, so strange. I'm told I don't look it.

I grew up here, moved to San Francisco after college for seven years then to New York for the past eight years, and I returned in last summer. I missed the common courtesy you get here, while also a little annoyed with the forced politeness here. Having a car again, to not be overly crowded, and to have nature so accessible are some great benefits of being back.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm returning to school in the Fall to get my MFA in playwriting. I'm either going to be in Canada or California in September. Perhaps you could come along.
I’m really good at
Taking my time waiting for the right connection.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
rebecca gilman, tracy letts, mike leigh, carol churchill, lorraine hansberry, tom stoppard, annie baker, sherman alexie, mamet, tony kushner, aaron sorkin, louise erdrich... tame impala, ltj bukem, pavement, beirut, built to spill, macklemore, sleater kinney, radiohead, boards of canada, pj harvey, tribe, the roots... the sting, wendy and lucy, naked, harold and maude, breaking bad, margin call, no country, blazing saddles, half nelson, basketball diaries...
The six things I could never do without
bed, the ability to travel, the ocean and those that live near it, my dreams, laughter, creativity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What next scene to write.
On a typical Friday night I am
It's been purely atypical so far...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't help but hold a fondness for doing a good ol' Irish goodbye in group settings. Saying bye can be such sweet sorrow (and tedious) that I sometimes prefer to skip it and disappear.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
If you like a photo, if you can distill my vibe and you think we might fit, and/or if you know of a good theater or other performance show to go check out.