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Westsidelove

41 Kenner, LA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:31pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I saw this article on Facebook...I am going to use this as a True and False quiz as pertaining to me the conundrum...

20 Things You Should Know About Dating An Independent Girl
By: Stacey Becker

1. We need alone time. A little each day and more than a little on other days. It doesn’t mean we’ve lost interest in you.

TRUE. I an an introvert after all.

2. We don’t mind if you don’t call or text us every second. We like it. We won’t be contacting you either. That said, if you’re late, don’t keep us guessing as to when you’ll show up as we’ll make other plans.

TRUE

3. We can clean up our own messes. We’re not waiting around for you to fix our problems.

TRUE

4. We are perfectly fine doing chores, running errands, and exercising by ourselves. If you want to join us, we’re glad to have you along, but don’t talk to us while we’re in the zone.

TRUE, However as of late I would like company doing these mundane chores.

5. We sign up and attend charity events, races, and cultural exhibits on our own. We don’t need a date to feel comfortable at these things. Set us loose in a room with a bunch of people and we’ll have 10 best friends before the night is through.

FALSE. in comes the introvert thang for me.

6. If we have a sleep over, don’t expect me to cuddle you all night and cook you a hot breakfast. I will actually want to sleep and we can go out to the diner for brunch.

TRUE

7. If we go to a party where it’s mostly your friends, I don’t need you hovering. I’m perfectly capable of chatting it up with endless amounts of strangers. I’ll even enjoy it. But don’t completely forget about me either as you’re probably my favorite person in the room.

TRUE

8. We are comfortable paying our own way and will feel funny if you constantly insist on treating us. We don’t mind splitting restaurant bills with you. In fact, it makes us feel like we don’t owe you anything. We never expect you to pay for us or buy us gifts. If it’s not on a birthday or an anniversary, it feels like a bribe.
TRUE

9. We will never ask you to lend us money. If we do, we feel odd and uncomfortable until we pay you pack.

TRUE

10. We are capable of going to the bathroom by ourselves. But sometimes we just prefer the company of a friend.

FALSE

11. We work because we want our own career. We’re not depending on you to be our sugar daddies. Don’t expect us to take a day off on a moment’s notice just because you bought tickets to a baseball game at 1 PM on a Tuesday. We have ambition and take pride in our work.

TRUE

12. If you want to go watch football or to happy hour with friends, we’re cool with that. Actually, we prefer it, on occasion, because it gives us the chance to catch up with our own friends or spend the night catching up on our independent interests.

TRUE

13. We know how to save money and are actively interested in planning for our own retirement. We know what a 401K plan is.

TRUE. I am well vested. The future looks bright.

14. The idea of getting married sounds great with the right person. But we’re perfectly capable of taking care of ourselves if need be. We choose to be in relationship because we like you, not because we can’t live without you.

TRUE

15. Sometimes, instead of a romantic partner, we secretly want to marry a cook / cleaning person / personal trainer / masseuse / stylist versus anybody else. If you happen to be one or more of these things, we will love you even more.

TRUEST of them all.

16. We like to fix things ourselves and will usually bring a step stool over to get things off of high shelves, even if you’re way taller.

FALSE. I AM WAY TOO SHORT

17. We can be stubborn and adamant about handling things a certain way even if you’ve been through something before and want to give us advice. Forgive us. Let us try it our own way first, even if your intentions are good.

TRUE

18. We get very frustrated with extremely needy, co-dependent people. This frustration may make us seem callous or icy, but it’s more about wanting to see people help themselves.

TRUE

19. At times, we may seem so self-reliant, content and in control that you may wonder whether you’re needed in our lives. You are. We are confident and directed but cherish someone who appreciates, rather than fears, these qualities.

TRUE

20. We still love a big hug, lots of affection, and to be told how much we’re loved. Tell us we look pretty every now and then and don’t let us shrug it off. Independence will never trump the desire to feel adored.

TRUE
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
finding it... then changing it for the better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Codependency. Sleeping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
no worldly idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books: Chick lit mostly written by British authors and no these are not romance Harlequin novels

Favorite movies: The Goonies, Annie, Singing in the Rain, 7 Brides for 7 Brothers, The Shawshank Redemption, Overboard, The King's Speech, Bridesmaids, Lincoln (To be continued)

Favorite shows: Hoarders, Neat Freaks, So You Think You Can Dance, The Graham Norton Show, Treme, Duck Dynasty, Game of Thrones

Favorite Music: Old school R & B (Otis Redding, Marvin Gaye, Al Green) Rebirth Brass Band, Dr. John, Harry Coninick Jr., Hip hop (I like dope beats and bobbing my head) , Norah Jones, Adele, Bruno Mars, Robin Thicke

Favorite food: I am partial to Asian however it can be anything from Thai, Chinese, Filipino, Korean, Japanese but no sushi (I'm allergic to fish.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, movies, water, my cell phone, lotion...ask me the last one :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to become independently wealthy?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suffer from depression. It is difficult for me to get out and about. Hence my loneliness.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are so inclined. you like to laugh...you like big girls...you eat meat...you are smart...you like smart girls...you like randomness...you like to dine out...you love movies...you want to travel...you recycle and are concerned about your carbon footprint...you have manners...you are chivalrous...you think I am awesome :) ON THAT NOTE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!