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49 F Howell, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has cats
English, German (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I moved to a small town a few years ago and then realized that while parts of it are good, there are some definite drawbacks.
I enjoy the open space and being on the water, but the lack of culture and night life has me heading to Ann Arbor quite often.
I love to travel and have been to both Europe and the Middle East and would love to go back. Italy is my dream vacation.

I am very active and during the summer I am often hiking, biking or on the water in my kayak or Seadoo. I love to travel and went to Fort Myers earlier this year (2014). I am also planning a trip to NY and Cape Cod later this summer.

I love outdoor concerts in the summer and going to art fairs. While I don't necessarily consider myself an intellectual I do keep up on current events - mainly by watching Colbert and Jon Stewart - ;) and read voraciously. I occasionally play trivia which is good for the brain as I find out how much I do not know.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have made it a goal a couple of years ago to learn or do at least one new thing a year. Four years ago I went zip lining for the first time. Three years ago was cross country skiing. The last two years was golf , kayaking and paddleboarding. Not sure yet what this year will bring. :)

I enjoy working out at a gym, but am not a gym rat. I also eat a fairly healthy diet so prefer fresh veggies over french fries. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a pretty good writer and am good at most things academic. I can be a good cook when I want to be. I am pretty good at both making and keeping friends. I am the best bargain hunter ever which also means I love to shop.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite movie is West Side Story. I read a lot so have a lot of favorite authors: Michael Crichton, John Grisham, James Patterson (when he actually wrote his own books) and Janet Evanovich. I can't wait to see the movie that is coming out this month. Update: Saw movie and I will stick to the books. ;)
I like all music, but prefer dancing to Top 40, current favorites are Rihanna and Usher.
I love all ethnic food especially Mexican and Middle Eastern although Mexican doesn't quite fit with my diet anymore.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, my friends, great music, a good book, my smart phone, and being outdoors.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If not on a date, then either hanging out with friends or home with my son. If summer then walking around AA or sitting near a bonfire is fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Will have to save that for later....
You should message me if
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If you enjoy good conversation, are active and at least somewhat in shape, and enjoy life. Although I have my serious moments, I love to laugh.
I will be honest and say I am not looking for an online relationship, so if you do not live within 30 to 40 miles of me it is probably not going to work. While I do date younger men, I am not really interested in anyone under the age of 35.
While I love kids, I have learned it is very difficult for men with small children to find the time to date so older children are preferred. Exceptions can be made for the right person though.
I am looking for someone who is honest, honorable, and doesn't play games. If you think it is okay to lie or misrepresent yourself or your intentions, I am not interested. I have very high expectations of the men I date, but I also hold myself to the same standards. Looks are important, but I also need to connect on a cerebral and emotional level, so if your profile or e-mails suggest a 5th grade education , we are probably not a match. Otherwise send me an e-mail. I look forward to hearing from you.